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Topic: question for the ladies
sparkyae5 Joined Thu 03/28/13 Posts: 1595	Thu 09/12/13 01:06 PM
have you met a man that had the qualities your were looking for ,but there was no attraction?

paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Thu 09/12/13 01:19 PM
On my part or his? Because if he has the qualities I'm looking for, I'd be attracted to him....

2KidsMom Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 58206	Thu 09/12/13 01:24 PM
no... they go together..like oreofillingoreo..and Milk

katskary Joined Mon 08/26/13 Posts: 178	Thu 09/12/13 01:57 PM
if he has all da qualities he should qualify 2 win yo heart

Pinkhippy13 Joined Mon 08/05/13 Posts: 3	Thu 09/12/13 02:01 PM
Even if he has the qualities you seek, if there's no physical attraction it won't work, unless you settle for that over everything else! You should be able to have the "whole kit and kaboodle"!! just might take a little longer to find, but hey surely it's worth the wait?

sparkyae5 Joined Thu 03/28/13 Posts: 1595	Thu 09/12/13 02:06 PM
attraction is not a choice.....it has nothing so much to do with the outside of the person.....we are looking for a image......

1Cynderella Joined Mon 02/18/13 Posts: 2398	Thu 09/12/13 02:07 PM
I've encountered men with tons of wonderful qualities that I appreciate in a partner AND were devilishly handsome to boot...but still no spark.

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Thu 09/12/13 02:16 PM
have you met a man that had the qualities your were looking for ,but there was no attraction? Yes, I have and sometimes it really sucks...Especially if they are sexually attracted to you...

manOfewwords Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 29908	Thu 09/12/13 02:22 PM
have you met a man that had the qualities your were looking for ,but there was no attraction? Yes, I have and sometimes it really sucks...Especially if they are sexually attracted to you...

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Thu 09/12/13 02:48 PM
have you met a man that had the qualities your were looking for ,but there was no attraction? Yes, I have and sometimes it really sucks...Especially if they are sexually attracted to you... There was life before ManO

manOfewwords Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 29908	Thu 09/12/13 03:02 PM
have you met a man that had the qualities your were looking for ,but there was no attraction? Yes, I have and sometimes it really sucks...Especially if they are sexually attracted to you... There was life before ManO

sparkyae5 Joined Thu 03/28/13 Posts: 1595	Thu 09/12/13 03:05 PM
leigh2154,,,,that happened to me also,,,,,,, except it was a woman in my case....it was a bummer......

sparkyae5 Joined Thu 03/28/13 Posts: 1595	Thu 09/12/13 04:40 PM
to paintcards01....really........"we see what we want" time will tell..............

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14476	Thu 09/12/13 05:10 PM
Yes, but no real "Chemistry".

pkh Joined Sat 05/26/07 Posts: 14961	Thu 09/12/13 08:56 PM
Yes I have and I ended up falling in love with him and we lived together 3 years

CremeBrulee Joined Tue 11/06/12 Posts: 2726	Thu 09/12/13 11:57 PM
have you met a man that had the qualities your were looking for ,but there was no attraction? Oh yes..... One,had aaaaaallll the spark,the connection and eerything,BUT,no connection in the sack!! Second-had all I'd want,but no attraction-at all!!! Too weird to explain,yet real!!

Simonedemidova Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 8952	Fri 09/13/13 12:04 AM
if he has all da qualities he should qualify 2 win yo heart I'm for this....

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33259	Fri 09/13/13 02:18 AM
Yeah, been there too. But it does mean not ALL the qualities you want/need are there. Really great guy, nuts about me, rather good looking, tall, sweet and so on. Basically the ideal man. But no spark. Well, he felt a spark. I didn't.

pearl1987 Joined Wed 02/13/13 Posts: 5	Fri 09/13/13 09:27 AM
does he even exist? :P

Simonedemidova Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 8952	Fri 09/13/13 09:36 AM
does he even exist? :P Probably not, but a girl can dream right?