Have you ever been betrayed by a friend?

Walking thru the mall with my date and a sausage link in my left, front pocket that I couldn't get rid of!!!

I had to think about this topic, it's a tricky one! I would think anything regarding the person close to you, for instance - next of kin, ...it would be considered a relationship.
It's quite common to find siblings in dissagreement with each other over various subjects for quite long and extended periods of time. We find those who distant themselves from family gatherings or certain family members, ...no contact at all.
There is a saying, "you will always find a bad apple in the bunch!"
Are you the black sheep of the family? Is there a black sheep in your family?
Maybe you're the one that gets in between the rival disputes and advocates the peace and unity in the family. Which one are you? The one that cares less and keeps away, or the one that finds themself in the middle of things, trying to advocate the peace and unity in the family?

I would write this:
I wrote your names in my heart from the very first start, ...my love for you -it will never go away no matter how far apart!!! Luv, Dad!

I certainly would do some things over. In particular, I'd open my eyes wider and let people into my heart. I've spent the majority of my life believing it was to my advantage to assume a degree of competition, antagonism and opposed interests exist between myself and others and that people will not do what they've be told, what is right and could cause trouble -ancient greek philosophy, Socrates. This kind of thinking kept me out of jail and out of trouble, but have to to admit it has made my life very lonely.

If you could write a message in the sky, what would it be?

If you had your life to do over again, would you do it all just the same? If not, what would you do differently?

u believe or once believed in Santa Claus?

ugh!!!! ahga... uuh, uuh

Some may believe a man's brains is just below the beltway for various reasons. Is he working at full capacity, or maybe looks can be decieving? What turns you on about a man? Below the belt or just above the shoulders? Are there any identifying, distinguishing differences/characteristics between the two? You don't really know what you're getting until you unwrap the package, right?

...change your bait

90 percent of the time, sex is the doorway to a woman's heart!
TRUE/FALSE

....just trust me on this one

Which one of the following attributes are the main contributor to your still being single?
SEX
MONEY
COMMUNICATIONS
???????

brownie points

Im allowed to post my views in our public forums just like you. If you think Im crossing over a line in doing so, thats your problem. You seem to have gone off on tangents that I made no reference to and are trying to make me the author of something Im not. Thats your thing. I havent called you sweetheart, or baby, or anything condescending. Thats also on you.


You touched me and I responded.

You may be biased towards one of your senses and it may be true that most men are but please explain to me how it is that you can touch a woman's body (as you claim above) and not be turned on enough by that? Do you have to do it with the lights on or something?

Let's be honest here. Most guys would shag a hole in the wall and they aren't all that fussy about looks as long as she's up for it.


See, ...the question was regarding the first thing a man looks at when he sees a woman...
Now, I'm here trying to explain to you, what most men don't realize is, men don't have anything to lose when it comes to sharing their bodies, time or any type of engagement with the opposite sex (maybe their health). And they also seem to fail to realize, 90 percent of the time, sex is the doorway to a woman's heart. I don't have sex with anything or anybody just to participate in the act. And I don't have sex with a woman that is less appealing by sight viceversa her charm and or intelligence. You can talk to a woman all day and you won't break her heart until you share that one inner most secret - her private life. When you go there, her heart becomes vulnerable.
That's the difference between you and I.
Now, lets see if we can get back to the subject...

I'm not disputing that but you claimed above that without sight "we can't move on" and this is false. I've dated women and even committed myself to having sex without having a good look at them first. You may be biased towards one of your senses and it may be true that most men are but please explain to me how it is that you can touch a woman's body (as you claim above) and not be turned on enough by that? Do you have to do it with the lights on or something?

Let's be honest here. Most guys would shag a hole in the wall and they aren't all that fussy about looks as long as she's up for it.


The worst thing we can do at this time would be to continue to force this issue out of context. You used the can't. I used the word ready. There's a big difference. The fact is we can't move on with this communication, be it just plain having fun and gathering information about people's choices but rather making things complicated much more complicated and irrelevant. I guess my next thread will be having something to do with complicating our relationships with others. That's funny how one word quoted incorrectly can change things. The word satisfaction plays a big part here and it surenuff cancels out any ideas relating to not wanting to move on as opposed to not being able to move on.

If you had a choice to select one of the five senses and live without the other four, which of those five senses do you feel you could comfortably live with and not do without?

My main point is we have to realize, sight is one of the five senses that dominates. Visually impaired or whatever, sight plays a significant part in our lives. If you would take a survey, which I will do here - If you could keep only one of all five senses, which one would you prefer to keep? I think the majority would have to go with sight.