Yes, but in time that feeling goes away

Has anyone else ever noticed that when you lose the love of your life,nothing feels the same, things just arent fun anymore? sorry just venting

Am I wrong?: How much is too much to talk to an ex? My boyfriend talk to his ex too much,and she calls too much 3 times a day also caught im in a lie They went to a movie behind my back I don't know what to do becuz this is hurting me He says I don't trust him

I would love to hear opinions on this. I have been single for a while now, and wondering if I should just accept that I am not a woman of these times.
I am the type of woman who prefers a man to ask her out. I prefer for the man to do most of the courting, showing his intentions, getting to know eachother at a somewhat slow pace. Once a man has won my heart, then I break loose with my attention and affection. (I am not dead!)
But I notice so many women responding to "hook ups" or hollering at men, approaching men for dates, even sex. And then it seems they come crying back because they get treated like trash.
Now granted I am alone. I am constantly being asked why am I single, and I reply "Cause noone asks me out." To which I always get, well why dont YOU ask THEM...
I have considered trying to change and losen up a bit, but it just doesnt feel right for me.
So what do you all think? And YES I know the year....

Men keep asking what women want, why don't they respond to the believed triggers.

Men the reason you can't understand what makes us tick at this level is because women fall in love with the way a man makes them feel. No, not just during sex although that helps...lol

If you can help us to feel beloved, wanted, sexy, special, etc.. then you will be half way there. The other half of course is your reliablity, trustworthyness, etc...

I said help on the above paragraph because a woman needs to already feel these things on her own so she will not be too needy to put up with.

I'll try to give you men some examples and hopefully some of the other ladies here will do the same.

I like a positively attentive man, he notices people and things going on around him and has good things to say about them. This makes me feel like he cares about life and me. If he is negative about everything you always have to wonder what he is complaining about you when you aren't around. Not a good feeling. This is especially true if he is always negative about women in general. Even if you do not know her and he is referring to her as a whore by what she is wearing, a woman cannot feel good about it if she is of her right mind.

Even with the womens lib stuff, I can open doors for myself but it makes me feel special when he does it. Walking on the streetside of me when we are walking to protect me. Making sure all watch their language around me, not that I may not spout a cuss word on occasion but he makes sure I am not offended by others. Those gentlemanly qualities are a good way to make a lady feel special. We ladies know we can do it all ourselves but it is all about the way we feel.

Making sure I am okay by a phone call or asking me if we haven't spoken for a bit. Asking if I need help with the dishes or dusting or whatever, I will probably say no, but it is nice to have the ask. Makes us ladies feel like you care and what we do is important.

Being fair in considering time out with friends. If you spend time out with your friends consider that I need the same amount of time with mine. Also making time for our personal time. For example, "I am going to watch the game this afternoon but tonight I will be all yours, what would you like to do?" Makes us ladies feel important to you.

If you get angry and resort to name calling remember we will never forget what you said. Usually better if you can calm yourself and come at us with reason instead of hate. Just a thought here but how can you feel good around someone who recently referred to you as a ***** or a whore or any of the other choice names there are for women.

Okay ladies see you if you can think of more.

you see men this should come natural to us we shouldnt have to be reminded. the woman wants us to figure out what she wants NOT TO BE TOLD c'mon guys u should pat more attention to ur ladies and listen more!

Hope this is helpful. I am posting it as a helpful topic. I really hope it doesn't turn bad.

I think everyone thinks they are unique. Genuinely. But overall, we're pretty much the same. Kinda sad... but whatever. I'll get over being average and boring.

Let's say your partner suddenly stopped showing you affection/loveNo sex, cuddling, hand-holding, kissing, hugging, gifts, favors, anythingBut they still said they love youWhat would happen?How long could you stay with them?