You know, guys with cats are more passionate, more nurturing, more affectionate and less aggressive than guys with dogs. Look it up, the myth is true.

UGH...you again ;)
Yes, and I also know a few but "overall" they are agressive by nature and serve no purpose. Put them down and/or ban them from the states

Your advice, while well-intended and good in many respects, is contradictory. You tell her about self-esteem, yet you also tell her to find someone to make her feel good about herself? I think I get what you mean, but still?

Anyway, it's very difficult when you're with someone all the time to not let their words affect you. They are someone you love, you respect, whose values and judgement (presumably) you value. So, if they think that about you, and you respect(ed) them, might there be something in what they say? That's the mindset you come to have. Whether it's correct or not is another issue.

So, when someone is in that situation, where someone you love and who says they love you is blatantly disrespecting you, showing through their words and actions that they do not love and accept you, advising someone to leave is good advice. Hard, but probably necessary in every case. Because, really, why WOULD anyone want to be with someone who didn't love, respect and accept them fully and completely? Then, she needs to work on her self-esteem, and loving and accepting herself (faults and all) so completely that she will never allow herself to be in or remain in that type of relationship ever again. And only then should she look for someone who can enhance that love she has for herself.

JMO

my ex threw mine away in an fury. my heart was broken.

god i miss my G-Wiz

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