I've read all the comments so far and thank you all for your input. Just to clarify I never hinted, suggested or even mentioned anything like this to her it was a decision she made on her own, that I was originally against but have sorta come around to the idea. I care for my family just fine and we've pretty much gone over everything but her final decision was for this to go ahead and over all else it's what makes her happy that counts. She also talks to anyone who shows any interest and says no to anyone she doesn't like.

Hey all, I'm married happily but my wife has had surgery that's left her out of action so she has insisted I find an open minded person to "be with" on top of not being able to do anything she also has no interest in anything else. Finding it hard to find people like that though. Any help?