New,so don't want compliments/insults about how look, little I can do about that. Advice, suggestions, comments re what put in profile tho; or any genuine hints on finding the real 'one' appreciated tho.

What is 'love'?? Difficult one... is there such thing as love at first sight (or just personal attraction/interest/lust)?? Generally we could say it isn't mean, hurtful, selfish, inconsiderate. Many people arent open to being loved because they just take, take and only think of themselves. Personally I believe its something more. It is finding that someone who meets what you want. So, it is personal and individual to you. But beware many are not open, truthful or honest about what they are like, or want!!!