Hi im Gerry 59 6 ft 185lbs. You a so right about scaring people off,Im afraid if I was to be brutaly honest Id get nowhere.But I will tell you.My wonderful wife died this past april,my dad the previous july.I im what the government says disabled,I have crohns.cant work any more.Was a chef for 35yrs. ssd for my income and that just covers my basic needs.I cant drive right now.I was pulled over for Dui, just after my father passed I wont or dont know when Ill be able to reinstate. looking for a friend to share ups and downs of life with. watch a film or just talk.Maybe hold hands laugh and cry together, be peace at heart just knowing some special woman cares about me. Gerry.