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Topic: So I tried to find out ....
Moondark's photo
Sun 04/13/08 05:48 PM
Why can't a guy just tell you if it is over? They either drag it out or ignore it. Okay, maybe there are some that can end things like a reasonable rational adult if they are no longer interested.

Why leaving me hanging on a hook? I'm guessing that because he didn't respond to the message and it has been 24 hours, that is the answer. I only restored to leaving a message since he didn't answer his phone or return the call.

When he said he was going to be home all evening because his son was having his girlfriend over and he couldn't leave them home alone.

Do I text him and ask if he wants the things he left back or do I just take them and donate them?

irad8you's photo
Sun 04/13/08 05:49 PM
where's the call me emoticon at? lol

brian325's photo
Sun 04/13/08 05:50 PM
Edited by brian325 on Sun 04/13/08 05:50 PM
Sure, text him with "hey a-hole, come get your things"

then move on...sorry hun, you deserve better flowerforyou

Moondark's photo
Sun 04/13/08 05:51 PM
Sad thing was, I honestly thought he WAS better. Better than the a - holes the past couple of years.

Jim519's photo
Sun 04/13/08 05:51 PM

Why can't a guy just tell you if it is over? They either drag it out or ignore it. Okay, maybe there are some that can end things like a reasonable rational adult if they are no longer interested.

Why leaving me hanging on a hook? I'm guessing that because he didn't respond to the message and it has been 24 hours, that is the answer. I only restored to leaving a message since he didn't answer his phone or return the call.

When he said he was going to be home all evening because his son was having his girlfriend over and he couldn't leave them home alone.

Do I text him and ask if he wants the things he left back or do I just take them and donate them?



Whats the stuff? Ill take it laugh

no photo
Sun 04/13/08 05:51 PM
We men.....we're such azzholes......I hate when one ruins it fo another.......

sorry to hear this reality hittin home......

It wasnt me......















was It???????????huh huh

difference2me's photo
Sun 04/13/08 05:52 PM
make no replys, that is what he wants. Move on and be happy!

Jill298's photo
Sun 04/13/08 05:53 PM
I've had more than my share of that happening to me. I wouldn't text him at all. If he doesn't claim his stuff ( he knows you have it) then get rid of it. Don't text him, it makes u look desperate

Silntstrnger's photo
Sun 04/13/08 05:54 PM

Sad thing was, I honestly thought he WAS better. Better than the a - holes the past couple of years.
i had the exact same thing happen to me

Moondark's photo
Sun 04/13/08 05:54 PM


Why can't a guy just tell you if it is over? They either drag it out or ignore it. Okay, maybe there are some that can end things like a reasonable rational adult if they are no longer interested.

Why leaving me hanging on a hook? I'm guessing that because he didn't respond to the message and it has been 24 hours, that is the answer. I only restored to leaving a message since he didn't answer his phone or return the call.

When he said he was going to be home all evening because his son was having his girlfriend over and he couldn't leave them home alone.

Do I text him and ask if he wants the things he left back or do I just take them and donate them?



Whats the stuff? Ill take it laugh


Velcro, for making some toys with.

Silntstrnger's photo
Sun 04/13/08 05:54 PM
have a bon fire girly...happy

Moondark's photo
Sun 04/13/08 05:55 PM
Hm, I don't know that I want to smell velcro burning.

Daintygrl75's photo
Sun 04/13/08 05:55 PM
What things do you have of his? If anything good I will take it..lol Keep his stuff! Your pretty you will find someone better.

Mary

EtherealEmbers's photo
Sun 04/13/08 05:56 PM
You could always text him and say his things will be outside at a certain time and he's welcome to pick them up or donate them to the neighborhood...

Jill298's photo
Sun 04/13/08 05:56 PM
blowing me off and ignoring me now equals me mailing you the pawn receipt of where to pick up your sh!tlaugh laugh

Johncenawlife316's photo
Sun 04/13/08 05:57 PM

Why can't a guy just tell you if it is over? They either drag it out or ignore it. Okay, maybe there are some that can end things like a reasonable rational adult if they are no longer interested.

Why leaving me hanging on a hook? I'm guessing that because he didn't respond to the message and it has been 24 hours, that is the answer. I only restored to leaving a message since he didn't answer his phone or return the call.

When he said he was going to be home all evening because his son was having his girlfriend over and he couldn't leave them home alone.

Do I text him and ask if he wants the things he left back or do I just take them and donate them?



I'm only taking a guess that he doesn't have the heart to be up fornt with you and tell you he no longer likes you and doesn't want to keep seeing you etc.

As for me if I no longer do not want to see some one I tell them why and try and be nice about it too.

Some guys can end things and some can't I guess.


Jim519's photo
Sun 04/13/08 05:57 PM



Why can't a guy just tell you if it is over? They either drag it out or ignore it. Okay, maybe there are some that can end things like a reasonable rational adult if they are no longer interested.

Why leaving me hanging on a hook? I'm guessing that because he didn't respond to the message and it has been 24 hours, that is the answer. I only restored to leaving a message since he didn't answer his phone or return the call.

When he said he was going to be home all evening because his son was having his girlfriend over and he couldn't leave them home alone.

Do I text him and ask if he wants the things he left back or do I just take them and donate them?



Whats the stuff? Ill take it laugh


Velcro, for making some toys with.


Nah, dont need velcro...

Put in an envelope with something just nasty and mail it to him

Moondark's photo
Sun 04/13/08 06:01 PM




Why can't a guy just tell you if it is over? They either drag it out or ignore it. Okay, maybe there are some that can end things like a reasonable rational adult if they are no longer interested.

Why leaving me hanging on a hook? I'm guessing that because he didn't respond to the message and it has been 24 hours, that is the answer. I only restored to leaving a message since he didn't answer his phone or return the call.

When he said he was going to be home all evening because his son was having his girlfriend over and he couldn't leave them home alone.

Do I text him and ask if he wants the things he left back or do I just take them and donate them?



Whats the stuff? Ill take it laugh


Velcro, for making some toys with.


Nah, dont need velcro...

Put in an envelope with something just nasty and mail it to him


Don't have his address. He came here. His kids weren't ready for him to start dating yet. Three big huge rolls of velcro. To much postage even if I had the address. Know the area, that's about it. Oh well. I could use it, but just seeing it makes me think of him.

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Sun 04/13/08 06:01 PM

Why can't a guy just tell you if it is over? They either drag it out or ignore it. Okay, maybe there are some that can end things like a reasonable rational adult if they are no longer interested.

Why leaving me hanging on a hook? I'm guessing that because he didn't respond to the message and it has been 24 hours, that is the answer. I only restored to leaving a message since he didn't answer his phone or return the call.

When he said he was going to be home all evening because his son was having his girlfriend over and he couldn't leave them home alone.

Do I text him and ask if he wants the things he left back or do I just take them and donate them?

feel badly for you,,it happens to us guys as well..the lack of communication can rip you up,,,,I guess you have to decide what you can tolerate,,,or what is best for your future, I know I have been giving that a lot of thought as of lately.
hope you get it good with yourself,,sometimes the only thing we have is us.
Good Luck
;-}

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Sun 04/13/08 06:02 PM

Why can't a guy just tell you if it is over? They either drag it out or ignore it. Okay, maybe there are some that can end things like a reasonable rational adult if they are no longer interested.

Why leaving me hanging on a hook? I'm guessing that because he didn't respond to the message and it has been 24 hours, that is the answer. I only restored to leaving a message since he didn't answer his phone or return the call.

When he said he was going to be home all evening because his son was having his girlfriend over and he couldn't leave them home alone.

Do I text him and ask if he wants the things he left back or do I just take them and donate them?

You did all you can do, if he dosnt want to call you thats his proplem and his LOSS.
Best wishs hun

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