i am having no luck at all I have guys that read and read my profile 5 times or more but don't take the next step or they may write "ONCE" say their going to call, and don't. I am 50 yrs, old and can take care of myself, i respect someones honesty even though i may not like it rather then his pathetic attempts at "what" making me feel better? What should i do any suggestions, i am not dating and can't figure out why. THANKS

Your only 3000 clicks away from true love.......

get in the forums and get to know people!!! some great people here

(((mirror!!! )))

Totally agree with the forum suggestion. Do you write e-mails as well? As in initiation?

Why don't you try the forums here and get to know some wonderful people. You never know what you may find once you establish close friendships.

Once people take the time to get to know you they will not be so likely to dismiss you. Anonymity plays a large part in why people seem to feel free to trample on others feelings on most internet dating sites.

I have the same problem. Change your body type to Average. Who knows, we may seem average to somebody. It couldn't hurt and it will make you feel better to. I did.

for actual dating the real world is much better...mostly i think people on dating sites(guys in particular) are socially inept...good luck to you

Absolutely! There are some really terrific people on this site once you get to know them Making great friends and meeting new people all the time

(((Bastet)))

If that is dishonest... it makes no difference how good it makes you feel. Average is usually considered 12-16, in my opinion. After all, if you meet IRL life and are not average, they can SEE YOU!!

I HAVE BEEN ON QUITE A FEW OF THE DATING SITES AND I HAVE HAD NO LUCK EITHER BUT HAVE MADE GOOD FRIENDS HOPEFULLY THAT CAN LEAD TO SOMETHING GOOD:)

Internet is just that way.
How many do you write & start a conversation.
Women's lib. says ladies are same as men.
I might not agree,but in this aspect, I think we are all equal.
I don't get answers to polite questions, lots of times.
Shake it off & go "NEXT".
Sorry, life is just that way.
I wouldn't change your profile, just to get contacts.
Facts are facts & if something in your profile stops folks from contacting you, isn't that what those details are for.
I am no bod beautiful either, Don't like the way I look; LOOK the OTHER WAY. To hell with them.

Oldsage~ You chose your name so well! Except I would not call you 'old', maybe "maturesage"?

Well then, according to your opinion, I am AVERAGE. So it's not a lie.

.....yeah I remarked just the other day to my sweety that every since I copped to being taken on my profile the same guys that were ignoring my emails are now checkin me out 1-2 somtimes 3 times....f**king nuts....dost fit my law of averages...lol...lol....lol..

Old beyond my years.
To many miles & lots of life to go.
Glad to see you seem happy, lillth.
Congrats.

I say expect nothing, nobody and no fun..........If you do this you can never be let down.

Thrilled, yes! Thank you!

Awesome....