I met this girl about 5 months ago. Everything was awesome, but in the past few weeks shes been hard to get in touch with. She used to call everyday, or whenever I called se always answered the phone, but thats not benn the case for a while.. Tonight she invites me up, so I go. Everything seems cool when I get there. She hugs me gives me lots of kisses, and basically clings right to me.. She wasnt all the way ready to go out she had to shower. While she is in the shower someone named Joe i will exclude the last name, keeps callin. So after she was ready she said she needed to call her mom for a minute, but she walked into another room to do so, wich she never does. When she comes back I tell her i need to make sure my teenaged daughter is ok, cause she was spending the night at a friends house. I pick up the phone and hit redial and it dials this joes guys #. I hung up and asked her did her and joe have a nice talk. She imidiatley gets mad and wants to argue.. I just get up and leave...When I get home she calls to say joe was just a friend of hers she says shes only talked to him a couple times anyway, and nothing has ever happened, i tell her if it was that inocent why lie about it..She wants me to come back to her bu I dont think I can trust her...Someone help me out here..

I met this girl about 5 months ago. Everything was awesome, but in the past few weeks shes been hard to get in touch with. She used to call everyday, or whenever I called se always answered the phone, but thats not benn the case for a while.. Tonight she invites me up, so I go. Everything seems cool when I get there. She hugs me gives me lots of kisses, and basically clings right to me.. She wasnt all the way ready to go out she had to shower. While she is in the shower someone named Joe i will exclude the last name, keeps callin. So after she was ready she said she needed to call her mom for a minute, but she walked into another room to do so, wich she never does. When she comes back I tell her i need to make sure my teenaged daughter is ok, cause she was spending the night at a friends house. I pick up the phone and hit redial and it dials this joes guys #. I hung up and asked her did her and joe have a nice talk. She imidiatley gets mad and wants to argue.. I just get up and leave...When I get home she calls to say joe was just a friend of hers she says shes only talked to him a couple times anyway, and nothing has ever happened, i tell her if it was that inocent why lie about it..She wants me to come back to her bu I dont think I can trust her...Someone help me out here..

invading her privacy???

thats crap...

she is messing with his heart and emotions..

I'd hit the button in a heart beat..

good for u Mich....

OK, valid points, but was this an exclusive relationship? I don't see a problem if it wasen't. Going on to someone elses ph. like that is like looking in a womans purse, ya just don't do that. Poor form on her part yes.

Very exclusive... But I mean what was I supposed to do... I knew something wasnt right, and I knew I was being lied to.. I had to know...I had been in a relationship for over 3 years over this same crap..

Agreed. All he did was hit re-dial. If she's honest she has nothing to worry bout

I have tried for 35 years maybe I should just call it quits, i mean im not looking for pitty or anything but it seems this is how it always ends... I dont know what to do.. I was realy falling for this girl and I dont know it just hurts realy bad..