I dont think I have the ability to fogive someone for cheating on me.. theres always other options..just leave..it would hurt less


So my answer is no I havent

Being brought up a christian, we were taught to forgive. Believe me, its not easy, but yes I forgave both of my ex-wives for cheating on me. It took time, but I did. No, I didn't take them back! Forgiving doesn't mean forgeting or accepting what they did. Eventually "What goes around, comes around", and neither found that the grass was any greener. After all, they will be judged at a later date, by someone more powerful than myself. Hope they pass the test!

The real question now becomes, will I get over the "Trust Issue" they caused? I try to trust everyone until they give me a reason not to. But in the back of mind there is always the little nagging question of ones truthfulness.

No, i never have. If you loved me in the first place you would have never cheated on me. Give you a second chance for what? To see how quick it takes you to do it again.. No!! I dont know if that saying is true, once a cheater always a cheater, but i know i'm not staying around to find out. The first time, Victim. the second time... Volunteer. and i'm not big on volunteering to get hurt..

lots of mean spirited people on this subject that have been burned. so do you blame them.???????

what causes cheating in the first place.???????

my x husband, may he be in hell, and not living in this state, never cheated on me...he told his mother, but his eyes said otherwise. i never caught him in bed with anyone, but then again, he was too fast and slick to be caught. yes

yes i have yes they did and no it wasnt