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Topic: I wont to see how many of you really....
JusWannaSayHi's photo
Wed 08/13/08 05:44 PM
Sometimes lovers make better friends, and maybe some times if you just take it slow you would figure that out.
But there is no reason , unless it is harmful to your health.


TheShadow's photo
Wed 08/13/08 05:44 PM

I don't know, I already have a ton of friends



Question, that you have actually met?

Krimsa's photo
Wed 08/13/08 05:46 PM


Are you saying, you meet to go out and there is no romantic chemistry? You really need to be careful what you say at that point so I generally keep it short, sweet and to the point. I tend not to do the "we can be friends" thing because some men think if the door is left open even a crack, they can push their way inside. So no, I don’t tell them friends for that reason.


yes i am sain that. but there is chemistry withn them for you. If your not interested in somone in that sense, there is no reson to let them go as a friend.


Well that is what I was referring to. Say I met someone online and we decided to meet and see how things go. If I feel like there is no spark or chemistry there now that we have met in person, I would let them know this by the end of the date. I don’t feel it’s fair to tease someone or not be up front with them about how I feel. If there is no future with this, they need to know that.


plk1966's photo
Wed 08/13/08 05:46 PM
Why do you have to meet them for them to be your actual friend?

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 08/13/08 05:52 PM



Think this way. if you meet somone and it don't work out more then friends. Are you going to get rid of them as a friend?
bigsmile I could always have a friendflowerforyou


Not what you said on the other thread that was the same question. So what is it. Yes or no?
bigsmile yesdrinker

TheShadow's photo
Wed 08/13/08 06:14 PM



Are you saying, you meet to go out and there is no romantic chemistry? You really need to be careful what you say at that point so I generally keep it short, sweet and to the point. I tend not to do the "we can be friends" thing because some men think if the door is left open even a crack, they can push their way inside. So no, I don’t tell them friends for that reason.


yes i am sain that. but there is chemistry withn them for you. If your not interested in somone in that sense, there is no reson to let them go as a friend.


Well that is what I was referring to. Say I met someone online and we decided to meet and see how things go. If I feel like there is no spark or chemistry there now that we have met in person, I would let them know this by the end of the date. I don’t feel it’s fair to tease someone or not be up front with them about how I feel. If there is no future with this, they need to know that.



I agree:smile:

TheShadow's photo
Wed 08/13/08 06:15 PM




Think this way. if you meet somone and it don't work out more then friends. Are you going to get rid of them as a friend?
bigsmile I could always have a friendflowerforyou


Not what you said on the other thread that was the same question. So what is it. Yes or no?
bigsmile yesdrinker


Ok:smile: drinker

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