if some one is really serious?

serious about what

serious about what they say

if they can prove what they are commiting to

well datz a hard one...well if dey told you many tingz before and dey do
practice what dey preach....den it might just be believable....den again
i said might...

but its hard to prove things when you dont have enough time

Actions speak louder than words. Do they call you? Do they do things for
you? Do they bring you little gifts to show they have thought about?
It’s the little things that mean a lot

you cant.. even if they do, unfortunatly i am a believer in the basic
species law of men seek out to spread their seed while women look for
the strongest male to mate with, i mean we are animals, and after......
so many men, me being the other woman, even with guys i thought were
decent, i just learned you can get serious, and they might eventually
care. but its all in our gentics, i mean even my girlfriend who had an
open realtionship with her man, he could screw whoever and bring chicks
home left her...what guy would right. i think guys need to know they are
in control. but if you want to give up your so be it. even saying i love
you.. its just words. im not a cynic just realist.

WHEN THEY PUT A RING ON YOUR FINGER.

hotchik.... if only that were true

They have a real big phone and let you hold it....

only if it vibrates more than 10 minutes

LMAO @ Rainstar's comment

u cant.

You can't 4fun? lol Not that your going to see this reply but but if
you spend anytime with someone you tend to get to know them Hmm like me
I been on this site for 7 months can you tell if I'm serious or not in
what I'm saying now???? I would think you would say yes so now the
question is how would you know that? If you just met someone then No you
have no idea on what this person is like but aftter time people tend to
show who the really are

oh yes i think it can be done you need some intuition to do it but some
lies are e z to spot and so are some truth's

you could live thirty years with someone and never know who they really
are. we all have secrets some deeper than others. point is take it for
what it is. my friends parents stayed married till they were old enough
then got divorced, to spare the kids, yet they grew up seeing a loveless
marriage, now he cant show any kind of emotion to his girl. i dont know
maybe im a cynic i think love is a made up word. i would like to believe
in monogamy and all that good stuff, but seeing what i have, even the
good fall. breaks your spirit. in the end we are all animals, there is
no serious. there is passion and lust, and wanting, and the love between
mother and child. i think we take life to seriously already. so i say
stop women, if he calls he calls, if not he didnt. oh well, go out have
fun. LIVE YOUR LIFE men to. life is to short.