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Topic: What happens when you actually find someone??
puckthefackers's photo
Tue 08/19/08 03:04 PM
Hey there, I just had an interesting thought. The majority of us are single and looking for someone for one of many reasons. What are you going to do once you actually find that someone?? The way I see it there are quite a few options:

1) Once you are in a relationship you and your partner de-activate your profiles. (Of course, in fear that he or she might find someone better laugh )

2) Decide mutually to keep your profiles active and change your headline to: Looking for Friends

3) If you meet someone not from this site would you keep your profile active? Would you be honest with them and let them know you are still on the site?

I know there are quite a few options that I missed, but I dont want to ramble. Share your experiences with current or previous relationships on this matter.

alisha07's photo
Tue 08/19/08 03:06 PM
we are both still on here but just for friends...

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 08/19/08 03:07 PM
smokin Deactivatesmokin

samauribaby's photo
Tue 08/19/08 03:08 PM
Yeah, stay on, be honest with them (and urself).
There are too many cool people to talk to to just cut it out compleatly.

no photo
Tue 08/19/08 03:11 PM
We are both on here "looking for friends" and plan to stay to keep in touch with friendsbigsmile flowerforyou

puckthefackers's photo
Tue 08/19/08 03:11 PM

Yeah, stay on, be honest with them (and urself).
There are too many cool people to talk to to just cut it out compleatly.


That is the option I would prefer to take myself. However that could lead to other issues if one is on more than the other.

Pete026's photo
Tue 08/19/08 03:11 PM

2) Decide mutually to keep your profiles active and change your headline to: Looking for Friends


Did that, and yet, somehow, I get more invitations, mutual matches, etc. than ever!

I guess it's true that forbidden fruit is tastier than, umm.. regular fruit (?) laugh

Jim519's photo
Tue 08/19/08 03:14 PM
I wouldnt really care either way. It is such a minimal thing to even think about or care about...

I just want to live....She can do whatever she wants, just as I should...

boneyjoe's photo
Tue 08/19/08 03:15 PM
hopefully i can answer that after this weekend

samauribaby's photo
Tue 08/19/08 03:18 PM


Yeah, stay on, be honest with them (and urself).
There are too many cool people to talk to to just cut it out compleatly.


That is the option I would prefer to take myself. However that could lead to other issues if one is on more than the other.

I would most def. cause issues eventually... cant win for losing..

mscherbear's photo
Tue 08/19/08 03:18 PM

Yeah, stay on, be honest with them (and urself).
There are too many cool people to talk to to just cut it out compleatly.


What she said flowerforyou

samauribaby's photo
Tue 08/19/08 03:19 PM
I meant IT would cause issuses.. not I! whoa

ljcc1964's photo
Tue 08/19/08 03:21 PM
Edited by ljcc1964 on Tue 08/19/08 03:21 PM
I would do the Robot....but I wouldn't tell him about it.

boneyjoe's photo
Tue 08/19/08 03:21 PM
would that be fair to your friend tho????

Peccy's photo
Tue 08/19/08 03:21 PM
Angel and I have tooooo many friends to just suddenly leave. It wouldn't be fair to either of us or them to just leave.

Besides we are both secure enough to trust the other.

itry's photo
Tue 08/19/08 03:23 PM
:wink: Find someone firsthappy

elwoodsully's photo
Tue 08/19/08 03:31 PM

I would do the Robot....but I wouldn't tell him about it.


Just who is this Robot, and why would you be doing him ??

ljcc1964's photo
Tue 08/19/08 03:32 PM


I would do the Robot....but I wouldn't tell him about it.


Just who is this Robot, and why would you be doing him ??


Hey! Look behind you!!

elwoodsully's photo
Tue 08/19/08 03:34 PM
Not fallin for that again !! Fourteen times was enough !!!

ljcc1964's photo
Tue 08/19/08 03:36 PM

Not fallin for that again !! Fourteen times was enough !!!


love

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