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Topic: So here's my dilema...
lilith401's photo
Wed 08/20/08 07:21 AM
Do the pro and con list and try to come up with a few viable solutions when you talk to him. Stand firm with having the conversation..... do not tolerate a brush off, "Can we talk about this later?"... especially if he says, "I miss you, I've not seen you in forever. Can't we just hang out and relax, enjoy each other?".... Stand strong, lovie dovie.

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Wed 08/20/08 07:25 AM
i just want to punch him for you .. my whole philosophy is there is not excuse you either want me or you don't if you do you better make time for me... your heart knows where it is and you know whats goign on if its good or bad we don't , just make sure you don't settle for something less than you deserve.

anyways lets all bond now and hug.... :heart:

Riding_Dubz's photo
Wed 08/20/08 07:27 AM
Hey if he isn't willing to give you the time and affection you need,

Im sure someone else would,=will,

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Jill298's photo
Wed 08/20/08 07:29 AM

Hey if he isn't willing to give you the time and affection you need,

Im sure someone else would,=will,

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I sure hope so flowerforyou

Jill298's photo
Wed 08/20/08 07:33 AM

i just want to punch him for you .. my whole philosophy is there is not excuse you either want me or you don't if you do you better make time for me... your heart knows where it is and you know whats goign on if its good or bad we don't , just make sure you don't settle for something less than you deserve.

anyways lets all bond now and hug.... :heart:
:laughing: well I'll let you know how it goes and whether or not you can punch him for me

maryelizabeth10's photo
Wed 08/20/08 07:39 AM
I want to wish you the best. I know you don't really know me or anything, but I've been there. Only he wasn't working he was out with other women.

Give him a couple weeks to work out his schedule and then if he still isn't seeing you mention that you miss him and need some "us" time. if he still says he'd have to figure out when to meet and he doesnt sound like hes taking it seriously he might not be being honest.

because if he really wants to be with you he'll make a way. :)

good luck hunny!

TheCaptain's photo
Wed 08/20/08 07:40 AM
Hey Christina Applegate look-a-like..........(yea, I still remember that). I know all about working too many hours, and excluding my family. I have changed my priorities and am starting to have a better relationship with both of my daughters.. I hope your boyriend sees that there are more important things than money and stuff. It took me too long to find that out myself.

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