I will "assume" most everyone has had their heartbroken at least once. Sometimes when "people" are most vulneralable they full for "The Wrong One", the one who "uses" and doesn't appreciate the love they're receiving. Then one day...it finally happens "you've had enough of the "nightmare" ...its over, you move on. "50 ways to leave your lover..."

I'm not sure what the point...or the question was.

well...its open for discussion sweetie, how lucky you are not to understand...

Story of my life, 5 failed relationships for this same reason.


My faults were, I always try to back the underdog, but learned they are usually the underdog because of what they do to themselves. I discovered I was codependent, which is a rampant illness in women.

What I learned is that I am a wonderful, fairly intelligent, attractive, wholesome, spiritual, etc... being that does not need a man to affirm it.

My self esteem went up, my pick of men went up and I learned even more about myself and men in this process.

So just keep working on yourself and you will find that you will be more successful at determining who is healthy for you and who isn't.

now, now girls.
yes most of us would have hurt at some time.