my ex broke up with me about 8 months ago and im over her now but i just recently found out that shes starting to go out with this other guy....i know this may sound pretty weak on my part but its starting to hurt me a little :(

i tried contacting her but she never responds like she used to and its killing me that she isnt talking with me too...i was in a depressed state after the break up and she was there for me granted that she didnt wanna be with me anymore but she was my best friend and now she hasnt been....i feel the need to just...disappear and idk what to think or do anymore...any help?? :(

and yes i have tried talking with other people and even dating as well...but no one seems to like me on here and ive been called ugly on here as well...no one...i mean NO ONE was like her :( i cant stop thinking about her and im really trying to

It will go away in time...belive me...just have fun and meet other people...it will get easier as the days pass

give her the respect for space if you care for her that much !! move on !! and take care of you and the rest will fall into place !!

last two posts said it all . . time will make it easier . . just gotta let it pass for now.

Well whoever called you ugly was really immature! Its not always about looks its about what's inside a person that counts! I'm more than positive that you will find someone that is going to want to date you just don't give up!

Don’t take anything personally - Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won’t be the victim of needless suffering.

The best thing to do in this situation is keep moving on. You have gone this far so don't mess it up by going back to the beginning. Go out with your friends and go meet new people and have fun. I'm sure someone will take interest in you!

dude. get over her. she's gotten over you.

Some people need more time than others for the healing process.


You're a cutie, just a bit too young for me

Time to move on sweetie. You will get over her eventually

Me smells a future stalker

I think I read a similar comment in another thread directed at the OP. Back to that in a sec.

Leave her alone. She doesn't want to talk so don't talk. Sorry it hurts you but thats normal sometimes. Shake it and put it back in the trousers.

Now back to these "cute" comments. Go get yourself a cougar, you are saying these other women are not going for you. Giving you insults? Go introduce yourself to the MILF's here and see which one needs a living dildo. If anything it will give you some more confidence which appears to be lacking right now. Just remember to use a condom and have plenty of airflow into the bedroom...just in case.

you need to go through the 5 stages of grief.......or is it 7???? I cant remember........anyways.......


She's moved on.........time for you to swallow your tears and go on.......its hard........weve all been there

Have you considered seeing a therapist to help you get over your feelings for her? Maybe that sort of processing would be helpful for you. At any rate, good luck.

Armbender,
Look man seriously, "Time heals all wounds". You intially said you was over her and then she finds someone else and now that the jealously emotion is coming out. If its really bad talk with a professional. The only thing I can say is I can relate to your situation. Take some you time for yourself and slowly bring yourself back to dating You have to know yourself and what you want out of life. Believe me your MOJO will be back. If she no longer willing to stay friends at this time let her go but leave that door open if she's a true friend.

First of all, you are not ugly. Whoever said that has bad manners and poor taste. Second, stop calling her now. NO MATTER HOW HARD IT IS. Do whatever it takes, even if you have to shut down your cell phone.

Now on to more actual advice. I understand how you feel. And no matter how many people on here tell you to just "get over it", that is easier said than done.

My best advice is to stay busy. At first you might want to avoid the activies and things the two of you did together. This is a great time to go back to whatever you used to like before you met her, even if they feel childish. This is also the best time to try new things you never did while you were with her.

If you know anyone with a child from 18 months to 2 years old, spend time with that kid. I guarantee that you will end up smiling and laughing.

Workout, learn to play guitar, call old friends you fell out of touch with. Call your grandma and granda, maybe visit an aunt or uncle in another state.

Take care of yourself. Eat right, sleep enough, but not too much. Many people will float in and out of your life, but you will always have yourself to count on.

Time will heal this, if you allow yourself that time.