Topic: to wait or not to wait?
faithfullguy31's photo
Wed 08/27/08 10:51 PM
So, I dated this girl once appon a time and we talked all the time on the phone and were together for about 5 months when she decides to tell me that she was to buisy and due to the distance facter didn't see it going any where but still loved me blah blah blah but we can try again when shes done with school and such... any ways.. I have been talking to this other girl now for about 5 months. I didn't think it was going to go any where and then out of the blue she tells me how interested in me she is and so on and so forth. So we go out on a date and things lead into more things blah blah blah.. I get a text from her the next day telling me she does not want a relationship right now but she really likes me and wants to be with me but her life is unbearable right now and asks me if I will wait for her. She has not stopped talking to me and has not told me to stop contacting her.. hmmmm

Is this a typical way to dump a guy? lol

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Wed 08/27/08 10:59 PM
I would say don't wait. Move on and if your free when shes "not so busy" then you can give it a try.

beauty314's photo
Wed 08/27/08 11:02 PM
no..sounds like you are an option on until further notice..

mscherbear's photo
Wed 08/27/08 11:19 PM
The "blah blah blah" must have been REALLY good for you to even consider waiting....

JustAGuy2112's photo
Wed 08/27/08 11:25 PM

The "blah blah blah" must have been REALLY good for you to even consider waiting....


Well...we all know that the " blah blah blah " can be VERY convincing.....LMFAO

DestinysDream's photo
Wed 08/27/08 11:43 PM
It sounds like she is trying to let you down easy. I'd say it's pretty typical.

VladTheInhailer's photo
Wed 08/27/08 11:46 PM
keep the higher ground. you can tap any ass you want...she = fkn around...dont be that guy!

beauty314's photo
Wed 08/27/08 11:50 PM

keep the higher ground. you can tap any ass you want...she = fkn around...dont be that guy!

i must admit..that was well saidblushing

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Thu 08/28/08 12:02 AM
it might be blah blah blah and then she blah blah blah and you could blah blah blah at a blah blah blah date feel blah blah that maybe blah blah ...blah blah....:laughing:

freeonthree's photo
Thu 08/28/08 01:02 AM
Sounds to me like shes a player, and wants as many guys on the hook as possible, that way she always has someone who will take her out and buy her drinks and service her. If I was in your shoes, and I was lookin for a relationship, I would not waste my time on someone who didn't show alot of interest right out of the gate.

Down2earthdebbie's photo
Thu 08/28/08 01:10 AM
frustrated Forget her & moVe on because LIFE is too short for gameS! TomorroW is a neW day & if she can string you alonG now so new in the relation then it will get worSe later on down the Road!