Topic: How Do You Know?
snarkytwain's photo
Mon 09/15/08 10:33 AM
This may sound dumb, but it may help to know that it's coming from someone who hasn't dated since high school when it was pretty damned cut and dry. ("Will you go out with me?" "Why, yes I will.")

Not so cut and dry now and I'm confused. Maybe some vets can help me out here.

How do you know when you're actually a couple?

RKISIT's photo
Mon 09/15/08 10:34 AM
when your just seeing each other and stop dating others:smile:

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Mon 09/15/08 10:35 AM
From what I've heard, when you two mutually agree to be exclusive, it means you're a couple.

plk1966's photo
Mon 09/15/08 10:35 AM
when you both agree upon it! At least that is when it happened for me.

Open comminucation, just ask "so we are an exclusive couple right?"

screaMNchic's photo
Mon 09/15/08 10:35 AM
when he moves across 3 states to be with you

snarkytwain's photo
Mon 09/15/08 10:40 AM
Gotcha. That makes sense I guess... as grown-ups taking a little more time than "hey, you're cute. Wanna be my boyfriend?" is a very good idea. laugh Thanks!

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Mon 09/15/08 10:43 AM

Gotcha. That makes sense I guess... as grown-ups taking a little more time than "hey, you're cute. Wanna be my boyfriend?" is a very good idea. laugh Thanks!


in junior high, if a boy saw his name doodled on a girl's notebook, they started "dating," it was so cute:smile:

plk1966's photo
Mon 09/15/08 10:43 AM
Take your time, get to know one another first.flowerforyou

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Mon 09/15/08 10:45 AM

when he moves across 3 states to be with you


love your tattoo

galendgirl's photo
Mon 09/15/08 08:01 PM
OMG...I'm so glad to know there is someone else out there who has no idea about the "rules!" Does there have to BE rules??? I just live in a constant state of confusion in that arena!
So I guess -good luck and have fun!

Roco's photo
Sat 09/27/08 12:36 PM
when he introduces you as his girlfriend..

Roco

 ☮️ Coolchic Dee 💟's photo
Sat 09/27/08 12:39 PM

From what I've heard, when you two mutually agree to be exclusive, it means you're a couple.





YEAH......What SHE said....! Thats my thinking on it-

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sat 09/27/08 01:20 PM

OMG...I'm so glad to know there is someone else out there who has no idea about the "rules!" Does there have to BE rules??? I just live in a constant state of confusion in that arena!
So I guess -good luck and have fun!


WTF???There are RULES??? No one told me that.

No wonder I can't get a date...lmao