Why do people lie and cheat???

I dont know......

It really SUCKS especially when they deny it even though you have proof.

I can't quite figure it out. I do know though it comes back to bite them in the butt....if that brings you any comfort

Are you still with this person???

i cheated once...
and i was so sick to my stomach i told on myself the next day
i dont know how anyone can do it and be fine with it
i was just a moron who let a arguement turn into binge drinking and letting some skank talk me into some sex...
its the biggest mistake ive ever made

I think they lie & cheat because they arent at all comfortable nor confident in who they are & the only way they can make up for that in their own mind is to manipulate & control the other person. If they lie & you donnt find out then they feel theyve won that round of their game. Same wwith cheating. They figure theyr entitled to it. Ivebeen cheated on before in the worst way & this is all i know to try & make sense of it. Its wrong tho & more than hurtful to the person BeINg cheated on.

I just found out today, but already have a lead on a new place to live! Even though I moved several hundred miles to be with her.

awwwwwwwwwwwwwww ((((((Sharon))))))

Just know that if she will cheat on you she will cheat on others.......its not you its her!!

Its sad when you cant even trust the person you love.......

Yep, what's funny is the guy she cheated with is the one who told me, but is telling her he didn't. So she's ending up with a liar as well.

((((Sharon)))

I don't know what to say sweetie If you need an ear, I'm here for you

Thank you Suz. I am still in shock!

I can imagine! I don't know her well but I don't know, it just seems out of character. Are you sure you can trust the guy who told you? That he's not the one lying in order to just cause a problem?

He sent me copies of her emails with her name on it. Plus she has been calling him everyday and talking for hours, texting all day long, acting secretive, and tells me I am just imagining things. The wording in the e-mails tells me it's her.

Awwww crap

I shouldn't talk about it on here, don't really like to talk about other people, but i just can't sleep and don't know what else to do.

You have mail

lots of people out there that dont know what they want in a relationship, therefore thats why everyone is more single than not..sad, but true..and the ones that r not single, cheat, cause they dont know what the HELL they want

welcome...to the human race