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Topic: Cheating
awolf1010's photo
Wed 10/15/08 04:09 AM
when I found out my ex was cheating on me.....I started digging deeper!! I didnt like what I found.
of course she denies everything, she still does!!!
despite the fact she moved in with him!!!

move on and dont look back!!!
you will be better off!!!

arcadefan's photo
Wed 10/15/08 04:12 AM
sorry to hear all the replies of what happen

((sharon)) flowerforyou waving

i'm here as well if you need to talk to someone drop me an e-mail

SharonM45458's photo
Wed 10/15/08 04:12 AM

when I found out my ex was cheating on me.....I started digging deeper!! I didnt like what I found.
of course she denies everything, she still does!!!
despite the fact she moved in with him!!!

move on and dont look back!!!
you will be better off!!!
My plan exactly!:thumbsup:

SharonM45458's photo
Wed 10/15/08 04:13 AM

sorry to hear all the replies of what happen

((sharon)) flowerforyou waving

i'm here as well if you need to talk to someone drop me an e-mail
Thanks Charles. Better to find out now than later.

arcadefan's photo
Wed 10/15/08 04:17 AM


sorry to hear all the replies of what happen

((sharon)) flowerforyou waving

i'm here as well if you need to talk to someone drop me an e-mail
Thanks Charles. Better to find out now than later.

your welcome sharon & your right find out now than later

bad_girl's photo
Wed 10/15/08 05:34 AM
Oh {{{{{sharon}}}}} I am so sorry doll, and if you need me, you know I am hereflowerforyou :heart: smooched

dawnyhi's photo
Wed 10/15/08 05:40 AM
they don't know how to handle the intimacies and work in a relationship... when someone pulls away and you try to pull them closer and it does not work just walk away... it was not meant to be. If you see the signs of someone losing interest before the cheating starts you got to talk it out or walk out... relationships should not be a game.

i worked on 17 years to recouperate a sour relationship... at some point you just got to get on with your life.

SharonM45458's photo
Wed 10/15/08 05:43 AM

they don't know how to handle the intimacies and work in a relationship... when someone pulls away and you try to pull them closer and it does not work just walk away... it was not meant to be. If you see the signs of someone losing interest before the cheating starts you got to talk it out or walk out... relationships should not be a game.

i worked on 17 years to recouperate a sour relationship... at some point you just got to get on with your life.
Yeah, when I felt something wasn't right, I tried to get her to open up and communicate with me. She did some, but not enough.

no photo
Wed 10/15/08 07:44 AM
I think people cheat because they don't feel their needs are being met. They feel they need to lie to make themselves look better in the eyes of others that might have the power to affect the outcome.

SkaryKoolAide's photo
Wed 10/15/08 07:45 AM
human nature?

bad_girl's photo
Wed 10/15/08 08:02 AM
Doll, that isn't always the case. My ex cheated on me, and he was well taken care of at homebigsmile

I think people cheat because they don't feel their needs are being met. They feel they need to lie to make themselves look better in the eyes of others that might have the power to affect the outcome.

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 10/15/08 08:29 AM
I never have, though I've never been able to hold a relationship either. Funny how people say they want an honest person to be with...and when you are honest, they no longer want to be with you. People suck, buy a dog.smokin

Mentork's photo
Wed 10/15/08 08:39 AM

Why do people lie and cheat???

'Cause they get off on having many women.

They lie about it 'cause they think that no one will be with them if they know there secret.

CoffeeSonata's photo
Wed 10/15/08 08:44 AM
Im sorry Sharon.. The same thing happened to me 5yrs ago. My girlfriend waited till i had mono & was cut off from the world for over 2 monnths & while i was out of it she cheated on me with a guy. Shed only been playing house with me & i never saw it coming. She got pregnant by this loser too. I had to then work with her for two month & see that hatred in her eyes until i moved. I thought it wld bring me to my knees the pain & betrayal of it all. I know you dont know me but i am here if youd likke to talk. I am so sorry this happened to you.

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