I had a relationship with a woman. Caught her red handed. Left her and then when that blew up she appeared at the door again. We had some fun and then she met someone else. But I found out that he has no idea what we were doing while they were dating. Poor guy, still has no idea as to how she is playing him. I don't want to see her now but should I inform the poor guy about what he is in a relationship with or just let him find out for himself. I can't wait for the responses to this one. Peace

If he's no friend of yours let it be

Stay out of it. Trust me.

I would say... if he asks you then be honest, otherwise, you telling about her little escapades with you or who ever to her new boyfriend will be viewed as jealous rants and she will be angry with you for not minding your own business or she will view it as you want her back. He will view it as the nosey ex trying to get his girl back and will either discard what you told him or he will break up with her thinking that he has stepped on someones toes... my advice would be to mind your own business and maybe stay away from her because she is obviously is not into you or she would not have done what she did... in my opinion.

He wouldn't listen anyway, IMO.

Wise words from Tina.....let it be

F_CK YEAH DUDE!!!

TELL HIM!!!

If he doesnt listen...then its on him!!!

But try for sure!!!

I would want to know.

Do you know the guy?

I was wondering that too.

what if he's doing it to her too?

If you know him, I'd tell him. If you just saw him, are you going to track him down and tell him? Really?

Why are you thinking about this... it is their problem. You were the one who took her back after she cheated on you.

Do you honestly think he doesn't suspect?

So far this is the best reply to this question. Why should she win? I really think after some queries that he is way too nice and will get his poor little heart broke. Do you think it would be better to go through a third party to give him this info. That way it's not directly from me and he might believe it. I ask you because you seem to understand that revenge is a dish best served cold!! Thanks for the reply.

Yes, I know more of him. Not personally. I know people that work with him and they say he is a sweet guy. What to do?

Yes, I know more of him. Not personally. I know people that work with him and they say he is a sweet guy. What to do?