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I'm joining a volunteer committee for the Habitat for Humanity in two weeks. But I'm an accountant, and I'm going into tax season. Avoiding a 'routine' is hard. From Jan - Apr my live is almost completely work and sleep!
you are a hoot longhair! |
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BTW nice kitty pic!!
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And last but not least, and most important and I can't stress it enough- if you are going to play the "I'm going to be a virgin till my wedding night" ploy make very sure you know who you are marrying. Make him show you his penis! Make sure he has one! There's nothing worse than falling in love with "BOB" then finding out on you're wedding night "BOB" is really "ROBERTA" and her sex change isn't complete yet but her wishful thinking really gets her by. Boy will you be disappointed. Check for penis!
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Fair quesiton. I've always said 'not before marriage'. Most guys just don't understand that. My ex was great, he felt the same way. But now I'm stuck feeling like he was the only one who will ever understand. I'd rather stay single then get back with him. But truthfull, I just don't know how to find someone who will understand. HELP Well I would not go out with someone who wanted to wait for marriage....that is just a way for the woman to use sex to get what she wants...I see that as controlling behavior..... Do you wait on other things too? why wait on Love....Its not about sex if love somebody its calling Making Love.... |
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Just trying to be helpful.
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Good advise, and a perfect example of why i'm more than a little hesitant!
Frankly, if I knew he was the one, I probably wouldn't wait that long. Another reason why I want to wait, is that i know myself. If he smiles a me, i'll swoon and swear it's love. Stupid! I know. But i just don't get THAT many smiles. I figured, if I wait, and not run after every guy I see, then I'll know that he's genuinely interested. Only one problem with that line of thinking....no one is interested! -screams in frustration- |
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Part of being attractive is feeling attractive. Then you can let that shine outward and trust me, it will be seen.
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hard to feel attractive when you weight over 200 pounds. (204.5)
I know I don't look like it, but it's true...and I feel it. Still I've actually lost ten pounds, and the other day I was just dancing through the restaurant. I can look in the mirror and actually see a figure (not a blob). I think that it comes back to what was said earlier...good things take time. |
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I think that there are a lot of men out there that would respect your decision to wait. I think it's the difference between really caring about someone. There are a lot of men out there with morals...I know far a few between...But I also think imo women tend to gravitate toward a certain kind of man....so maybe examining that on your own personal level might be a good thing. Can't change what you don't acknowledge.....(dang love Dr. Phill)
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Edited by
lilith401
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Fri 10/24/08 10:06 AM
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Well, KG, as harsh as this sounds you might want to hold off on meeting anyone until you feel attractive.. regardless of what you weigh. Self assurance and self confidence speak volumes and to me, in a man, these things are far and above any appearance meter.
Someone who doesn't feel attractive can never be viewed as such, in my eyes of course. This is because they do not put forth that sense. I want to love someone who loves themseleves. |
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Well, KG, as harsh as this sounds you might want to hold off on meeting anyone until you feel attractive.. regardless of what you weigh. Self assurance and self confidence speak volumes and to me, in a man, these things are far and above any appearance meter. Someone who doesn't feel attractive can never be viewed as such, in my eyes of course. This is because they do not put forth that sense. I want to love someone who loves themseleves. awwww my wise lil compadre....no truer words spoken. I also feel strongly that you always have to love yourself first..before you can ever expect anyone else to come into the picture. |
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Thanks, Deb. I hope our new poster takes this to heart from all of us. We all feel this way sometimes, unattractive, but you can't let it define who you are. I am a person. A whole person.
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Thanks, Deb. I hope our new poster takes this to heart from all of us. We all feel this way sometimes, unattractive, but you can't let it define who you are. I am a person. A whole person. Awww darn I guess I am the exception I always think I am the cat's meow.....lol You know lilith I always look at the good and rarely see the glass half empty.... |
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I am NOT looking for sex. I've always said that would have to wait. But most guys expect that. How can I find someone who is willing to wait? Any advice welcome. 
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I am NOT looking for sex. I've always said that would have to wait. But most guys expect that. How can I find someone who is willing to wait? Any advice welcome. When dating a new guy, I would put off any kind of intimate contact. No heavy kissing or making out, nothing that requires taking clothes off. The longer you put off the simple stuff, the longer you put off sex. And if you find a guy that repeatidly wants to date you, regardless of the lack of physical activities, then I think you found a guy who doesnt have sex on the brain constantly |
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the minute you start putting stipulations on a relationship it becomes unnatural.....Rule 342
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Hmmmm. Do you want a guy who isn't sexual, though? Me thinks not!
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