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Topic: How can I tell?
IndnPrncs's photo
Thu 10/30/08 11:36 PM
ohhhhhhh that is a bit different... be careful...

raynechaotic's photo
Thu 10/30/08 11:39 PM
Oh, that, he doesn't like ask me things about them specifically, he just asks me if I think he should go for it and I'm like uh no they're in relationships. He kinda doesn't get it sometimes...

no photo
Thu 10/30/08 11:40 PM
I say put it out there, if you get the same response its time to cut the cord and tell him why. Move on and dont look back.

You are in for heartache if you dontbrokenheart tears

raynechaotic's photo
Thu 10/30/08 11:42 PM


It's not going to bother me if he really doesn't. I mean besides the fact it gets old hearing about who he likes and what he should do about it when it's girls I know aren't his type (they're my friends and said they don't like him plus they'd cheat on him even if they did date him because he's saving sex and they kinda just can't do the whole no sex thing). I mean I try to help him. And that's when he says the stuff that makes me wonder if he likes me. But then I could just be guessing his whole intentions of asking me what he asks me wrong.

Sounds more and more like he is using you to get to your friends...I think you are answering your own questions.


Yeah, I probably am answering the questions of my own curiosity, but I'm not going to understand until someone words it right and then I'm like oh. lol. I'm weird like that...

JustAGuy2112's photo
Thu 10/30/08 11:47 PM


He says a lot of stuff too that leads me to think he doesn't. But there's more that makes me think '...hmmm....' haha


I have to be hit upside the head with it...


Join the club....lol

raynechaotic's photo
Thu 10/30/08 11:52 PM
haha

IndnPrncs's photo
Thu 10/30/08 11:58 PM



He says a lot of stuff too that leads me to think he doesn't. But there's more that makes me think '...hmmm....' haha


I have to be hit upside the head with it...


Join the club....lol


No pun intended... laugh

JustAGuy2112's photo
Fri 10/31/08 12:00 AM




He says a lot of stuff too that leads me to think he doesn't. But there's more that makes me think '...hmmm....' haha


I have to be hit upside the head with it...


Join the club....lol


No pun intended... laugh


Unfortunately...it WASN'T intended. LMAO

Kinda wish it had been cuz that was a GOOD one...LOL

IndnPrncs's photo
Fri 10/31/08 12:00 AM





He says a lot of stuff too that leads me to think he doesn't. But there's more that makes me think '...hmmm....' haha


I have to be hit upside the head with it...


Join the club....lol


No pun intended... laugh


Unfortunately...it WASN'T intended. LMAO

Kinda wish it had been cuz that was a GOOD one...LOL


Even funnier... rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

JustAGuy2112's photo
Fri 10/31/08 12:03 AM
I can't believe I let that one slip past me...grumble

IndnPrncs's photo
Fri 10/31/08 12:04 AM
happens to the best of us... bigsmile laugh

JustAGuy2112's photo
Fri 10/31/08 12:07 AM

happens to the best of us... bigsmile laugh


True enough. lol

Roco's photo
Fri 10/31/08 12:14 AM
you have 3 choices:

1. base - continue doing what your doing
pro - he'll still text you
con - you'll continue being confused about your friendship

2. aggressive - stop texting him and start interacting; face to face
pro - deeper bond may develop
con - risk loss of friendship

3. conservative - give him less and less advice each text
pro - you'll start to feel less used
con - risk loss of friendship

Recommendation: Take aggressive course of action # 2. Risk is worth the reward.

Roco

Roco's photo
Fri 10/31/08 12:17 AM
in the background assessment, i sense that your both very young...otherwise, i would have written something else entirely..

raynechaotic's photo
Fri 10/31/08 02:53 AM
im 18 and he's 20

longhairbiker's photo
Fri 10/31/08 02:57 AM
That babys not smiling at you. He just has gas.

longhairbiker's photo
Fri 10/31/08 02:59 AM
Be foreward and direct.

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