hello im a single african american woman who is wanting to try something different. Im tired of waiting around for the brothas who are not waiting for us. so tell me why are the white men afraid of dating blk woman? looking in illinois!!!

welcome and have a blast!

I have absolutely no problem with that. I think African American woman are beautiful.

Hello and welcome

Sister, it doesn't matter what color you are. WE all deal with the same dilemma.

Hey Pats

Happy friday

You too Pats...have a good weekend

As much as we have evolve as a society interracial dating is still a problem. I think that you must have a strong mind and two loving family that will understand the love you have for each other and also good friends that will understand to if you want it to work. I personally don't look at color when looking for love if I ever find the one for me I don't care where she is from or what color she is as long as she loves me.

*shrug*

"brotha"???

ok, nevermind that...

As for me...

always always always have dated interracially..
(I grew up in Italy, then upon moving to the US I'd always lived in non-minority neighborhoods, so interracial is natural and the norm to me)

never had a problem finding extremely nice, stable, intelligent, goal oriented, articulate/eloquent, and handsome men of opposing race (both older and younger) to date/have a relationship with....

(I mean, I lived in MS [of all places] for several years, now right outside of Atlanta [predom black population], yet I still have never had a problem meeting sane, eligible people of opposing race)

When I was in IL on a work assignment a few months back, several women asked me the same thing you've just asked...
I have my opinions as to why, but that's all it is..opinion. No one can say for sure ...

I'm a part of the human race. I prefer not to date outside of that

LOL @ Quiet's remark, was thinking the same thing... It is society that puts the labels out there... it is the masses that submit and accept it as so.....

Just keep your chin up Twizzler and your thoughts positive... it will happen when it's meant to be....

Just wanna say there are dogs in every race, hope you find what you are looking for. As for me not that I would ever be against it myself, but I would never bring someone from another race to my family bcs they still aren't as open as I am about it. I think that is what would worry me bcs they can be mean and I would end up in a fight or argument with them and end up disowning my whole family bcs of a point of view. Dont get me wrong there special things I really love about them, but they are down right ignorant sometimes.

Thank you for this thread Ive put it out a while ago.Ive dated Good Men! Good Men<
Ive never seen a diffrence I know that we all bleed red blood, but now! for what we were tought to belive yes!that ive seen.Prejudice has no place in my heart.My men have always been heinz 57.sevens and i LV it Ive always been treated well!Koolaidwoman,11/7/08,,,

I like big butts and I can not lie,
you other brotha's can't deny

Hmmmmm......I've dated black,white,brown..it does not matter...all men s*ck!





joke!




Oh Chit! I'm gettin outta here!

Maybe, you're not doing what it takes to attract men...be it black, white...or whatever.

Try doing something outragious !

Sir Mix Lot that's funny!

i must say u did have the best reply. me and my big butt friend is still laughing