Topic: To be on not to be mad?
I_am_Montel's photo
Mon 11/10/08 07:35 PM
I need to ask women some serious advice. Now, if a man encounter a women who is throwing a line of UNBELIEVABLE crap, fib, or dare we say a lie. How should a REAL MAN handle it?

E.g. I could not answer the phone because my blue tooth was at home. !!! LOL

or I could send you text messages, but could not call you because I was driving. (Well, why did you have me wait for 2 hours and not just pull over and call me?) Well I was on the expressway. Well, then if you had to turn around, then did you not have to get off of the expressway? !!!


I mean seriously, it does not pay to get mad or it does not pay to pretend that it does not happen. What suggestions do you have besides mine? Which is to step???

explode

Ruth34611's photo
Mon 11/10/08 07:37 PM
So, what you're saying is she didn't answer the phone or call you back right away and you're mad? I'm just trying to follow the story before I give my opinion. And, how do you know she was lying? Because I always forget my headset and don't answer the phone in the car.

MsCarmen's photo
Mon 11/10/08 07:38 PM
I believe you have 2 choices, either accept the lies and her behavior, or decide not to put up with the lies and move on.

Cinderella75's photo
Mon 11/10/08 07:48 PM
One advice for you babe...MOVE ON..if a chick starts feeding you BS, well she is just not interested..thats life.
Dudes do that too..so I know you know what I am talking about.

keepthehope's photo
Tue 11/11/08 12:49 AM
There is no need to waste your energy getting mad, just move on, get rid of her, push delete, hang up, send to trash can....etc.

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Tue 11/11/08 01:06 AM
If you have doubts and can't trust her, it's best to end it now. You have to follow your instincts, whenever I've ignored mine, it always bit me in the azz. Best of luck to you in whatever you decide.drinker

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Tue 11/11/08 01:22 AM
hMMMMMMMMM I find the best thing is ask them outright.......and see what their eyes say and what your "gut" says.......




I vote for the gut feelings every time. Its called the 6th sence and we all have it. Use it. If it doesnt feel right, it probably isnt!!noway

I_am_Montel's photo
Tue 11/11/08 01:36 PM
The series of text messages (over 2 hours) were sent while she supposedly was driving to my house. However, she did not know where my house was due to the fact that she left the directions at home.

She said that here 12 y/o cousin was sending the text messages and she did not were her talking to a grown man to ask for my address. There was no good reason why she did not pull over and call me.

To be honest, I am not even sure she is in my city!!

I_am_Montel's photo
Tue 11/11/08 01:37 PM

So, what you're saying is she didn't answer the phone or call you back right away and you're mad? I'm just trying to follow the story before I give my opinion. And, how do you know she was lying? Because I always forget my headset and don't answer the phone in the car.


Your reply is above this one.

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Tue 11/11/08 01:38 PM
I would propose marriage to her.....or not...your choice

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Tue 11/11/08 01:39 PM
yea....sounds like she's playin' ya a little bit

franshade's photo
Tue 11/11/08 01:42 PM

The series of text messages (over 2 hours) were sent while she supposedly was driving to my house. However, she did not know where my house was due to the fact that she left the directions at home.

She said that here 12 y/o cousin was sending the text messages and she did not were her talking to a grown man to ask for my address. There was no good reason why she did not pull over and call me.

To be honest, I am not even sure she is in my city!!


If she was driving for 2 hrs texting you, I'd also guess she was not in your city laugh

what's the big deal? call her and ask her?

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Tue 11/11/08 01:43 PM
There are two things you can do. Deal with her actions or move on.