singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 10383 |
QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: I can assure you I am who I say I am. I can assure you I'm a nice guy. I'm SO sick of that crap. I'm tired of hearing that stuff, only to find out they're nothing like they say they are and are far, far from a nice guy. I have to agree with sweet on this. When most of us women hear I am " REALLY A NICE GUY" the first thing we hear is oh great here we go again. If a person was really a nice Guy/Girl why would they have to say so? This should be apparent. I have met some really "Nice Guys" not one of them had to tell me they were "Nice Guys". I knew a guy who always told me the kind of guy he was. He always said he was the kind of guy that would do the right thing no matter what. Whether it was the easy thing or not. He turned out to be nothing like that. So, it isn't all nice guys. Just guys that give you these lines, yet turn out to be nothing like what they say. Sweet this makes my point exactly.. I dont' need a person to tell me that they are a "Nice Guy", "Honorable", or for that matter any of the great qualities that most of us are looking for it will show glaringly if not right off the bat with in a few emails or dates. I guess I must be getting jaded, in my old age. I dont' want a guy to tell me how great he is I want to find that out all by myself. I have a saying I live by "time will tell me what I want to know". Yep, exactly. If the actions don't match the words, the words don't mean a thing. |
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singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 10383 |
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Dreams......
QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: The only time I ever remember dreams is if they involve people I know. I had one last week that I don't remember much of. But, it involved a guy I know and wine. That's all I remembered about it.. 
I enjoy wine, so good times, I guess? I wonder what it means that I only remember dreams if someone I know is in them. Not quite sure what you're asking. Sometimes I don't even remember much of what happened in the dream other than who was in the dream. Sometimes, I remember more. |
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singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 10383 |
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Dreams......
QUOTE: QUOTE: The only time I ever remember dreams is if they involve people I know. I had one last week that I don't remember much of. But, it involved a guy I know and wine. That's all I remembered about it..
I enjoy wine, so good times, I guess? I wonder what it means that I only remember dreams if someone I know is in them. |
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singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 10383 |
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mingling at work
QUOTE: You're right, Sing, but it isn't guaranteed here either. Look at the auto industry. Ford, Chrysler and whats left of General Motors is mostly crap now. Honda and Toyota are taking over, as much as I hate to admit it, are simply building better quality cars. Then at the same time are doing it cheaper. From how I see it anyway, the employees just aren't as greedy and have better work ethic (for the most part). Well, in the industry I work in, when jobs are outsourced, the quality of work tends to go down. Though, as long as companies are saving money, who cares. Right? |
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singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 10383 |
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mingling at work
Sending jobs overseas doesn't guarantee quality work.
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singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 10383 |
Topic:
Dreams......
The only time I ever remember dreams is if they involve people I know. I had one last week that I don't remember much of. But, it involved a guy I know and wine. That's all I remembered about it..
Edited by singmesweet on Mon 11/23/09 10:21 AM
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singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 10383 |
Topic:
Are we angry?
People think they can get away with more, since others won't say anything much of the time.
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singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 10383 |
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Posts with pictures
QUOTE: QUOTE: I like everyone likes to see a face with an email/post but sometimes a person's not in a position for career reasons to do so. I'm more than willing to share information but I'm not about to lose my career in doing so. I am in agreement here...I, for one would rather see breasts with an email... 
Why does that not surprise me?
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singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 10383 |
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PIRATE RADIO??!?!!!?
This is definitely a movie I want to see.
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singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 10383 |
QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: I can assure you I am who I say I am. I can assure you I'm a nice guy. I'm SO sick of that crap. I'm tired of hearing that stuff, only to find out they're nothing like they say they are and are far, far from a nice guy. I have to agree with sweet on this. When most of us women hear I am " REALLY A NICE GUY" the first thing we hear is oh great here we go again. If a person was really a nice Guy/Girl why would they have to say so? This should be apparent. I have met some really "Nice Guys" not one of them had to tell me they were "Nice Guys". I knew a guy who always told me the kind of guy he was. He always said he was the kind of guy that would do the right thing no matter what. Whether it was the easy thing or not. He turned out to be nothing like that. So, it isn't all nice guys. Just guys that give you these lines, yet turn out to be nothing like what they say. |
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singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 10383 |
QUOTE: I can assure you I am who I say I am. I can assure you I'm a nice guy. I'm SO sick of that crap. I'm tired of hearing that stuff, only to find out they're nothing like they say they are and are far, far from a nice guy. |
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singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 10383 |
Topic:
mingling at work
Tons of people who do their jobs well are getting laid off because of outsourcing. It has nothing to do with their ability to do their job well. It all has to do with money. In order to save money, employers are willing to outsource the jobs, not caring if the quality of work goes down.
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singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 10383 |
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What have you learned?
QUOTE: I learned that I too don't want to face emotion. I would much rather make the other person hate me so I can let it go, than face it and figure it out. That goes for family, friends, and everyone else. I've also learned that I will never understand this attitude. Not singling you out.. I just know others like you and will never understand. |
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singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 10383 |
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What have you learned?
I've learned that no matter what, I cannot make someone else do the right thing. And when they won't, I just have to learn to deal with it and move on.
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singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 10383 |
Topic:
mingling at work
QUOTE: I am guessing you meant employers don't care about employees. And, with the attitude you admitted to above, it does make you easily replaced. Fact is, many people are easily replaced and many employers don't care much about their employees. Outsourcing is proof of this. |
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singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 10383 |
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NYC
Anyone have other suggestions?
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singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 10383 |
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NYC
QUOTE: u must go see the tree in rockville center.and look at the skaters. see the windows in the stores with all the beautiful christmas decorations. Go see a broadway play. I think you mean Rockefeller Center? Yes, as I've said, that's something I'd like to do  . Thanks for the suggestions.
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singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 10383 |
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NYC
Thanks
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singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 10383 |
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NYC
I think it's called Forrest Hills. Or something like that.
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singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 10383 |
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NYC
I'm staying in Queens
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