singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 25406 |
QUOTE: Because Young Spiffy D and Sarah Baker can have kids together whereas Adam and Steve cannot. So, you're against marriages where the couples are not procreating? Do you believe a couple must try to have children if they're going to marry? |
|
singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 25406 |
QUOTE: QUOTE: To those who are against same sex marriage, do you feel that interracial marriage should not have been legalized either? If you feel differently about both, why? No....gays or lesbians and interracial marriage got as much to do with each other as gay bikers on acid and aliens who like videos of puppies doing bong hits. How jacked up are you to equate gay with interracial? You tell me...what is your problem with gays who ain't having sex with you?....Or black guys who ain't having sex with you? This doesn't have anything to do with me and sex, so I'm not sure why your questions were about that. |
|
singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 25406 |
Topic:
How many more times?
QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: All we need is ese and we'll have everyone in here who hates when I ask questions. 
everyone??? :-) Yep! There are only a few of you who give me a hard time for asking them questions. :)  Only a few? Then the rest of us need to try harder. 
{snicker} 
|
|
singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 25406 |
Topic:
How many more times?
QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: All we need is ese and we'll have everyone in here who hates when I ask questions.
everyone??? :-) Yep! There are only a few of you who give me a hard time for asking them questions. :) Only a few? Then the rest of us need to try harder.
|
|
singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 25406 |
QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: good grief come into the 21st century.normal cannot be defined.if 2 people of same sex fall in love,how is that wrong?love doesn't know colour or sexes.it just is.you sound like the old Victorian tempest mob from uk.no offence but at the end of the day live and let live,. we all have views,we all are entitled to live.look around how many hetro relationships are full of vitriol, beatings, murder, divorce, abuse.loads.dont sweep it under the carpet.we are all human and the basic human need is to be loved and wanted.i hate those who bring religion into arguments.religion has nothing to do with who you love.at the end of the day lets be real-jesus wore a long dress and hung around with only guys,.what does that say?
So who defines the definitions of right and wrong? i keep hearing "it's not wrong", but what makes it right? because you say it's right? you don't agree with religion, so anyone that uses religion as a basis is automatically wrong? this love conquers all - even your morality? there's not a point when you ask "is this right?" if people cannot keep self control, then things like this happen... And we keep hearing from you guys that it's not normal or right. Who decides what's normal and what's right? And this coming from an atheist? Are you now going to start siding with those who dislike homosexuality due to religion? no, i didn't get my point across, i guess... my point was about opinions altogether... people that follow religion have their beliefs, and you seemed to be dismissing them for what they believe, making me believe that you think your opinion is "more right" than others... if you think gay butt sex is right, then more power to ya, i won't agree with ya... Religion is personal. If someone has religious beliefs that say being gay is wrong and anal sex is wrong, no problem. My issue is when they try to force others to live by their beliefs. |
|
singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 25406 |
Topic:
How many more times?
QUOTE: QUOTE: All we need is ese and we'll have everyone in here who hates when I ask questions.
everyone??? :-) Yep! There are only a few of you who give me a hard time for asking them questions. :) |
|
singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 25406 |
QUOTE: QUOTE: Eventually all will realize that it isn't their concern to mandate who loves who as long as age and mental consent is considered. If they want to marry or have a civil union they should be able to do either or both if they want. Civil Union was legalized last Year in Illinois and there was a huge celebration down town called "Pride Fest". This celebration is going to be going on this Saturday May 19 again this year. Activist groups are protesting against legalizing same-sex marriage in this state. If couples of same sex already have Civil Union legalized, then they don't need a marriage license. IMO What criteria do you use to decide who needs a marriage license and who doesn't? |
|
singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 25406 |
QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: omg how is the united states so far behind?? us brits have had same sex legalised marriages for years now.nothing wrong with them.why the big hoohaa?i don't get it.good grief.gay people are allowed love and marriage just like anyone is.its no sin!!! As you can see from this thread, some in the us are still very homophobic, so they don't even want gay people to have sex, much less marry. I am personally not scared of anything, thus no phobia but just as I dont 'want' brothers and sisters lying down together, I dont 'want' men lying with men and women lying with women HOWEVER that is irrelevant due to people having control over their own bodies and decisions, including who they bed,, I HAVE NO SAY IN THAT AND IT IS HAPPENING AND WILL HAPPEN what I dont want is government to step in and , in effect, sanction the behaviors anymore than I would want them to make it a crime I accept fully that people can sleep with whomever they choose I dont accept a culture where children will be raised to see heterosexuality as just an 'option', and homosexuality and incest as equally healthy and natural options,,,, adults do what they want, but dont implement it into the culture as a 'protected' and therefore promoted behavior,,, As we all know, homophobia can also mean having a strong dislike or aversion to homosexuality. You have that. What a ludicrous statement! For someone to dislike an abnormal behavior does not make them phobic. It's not ludicrous. You don't have to be afraid of homosexuals to be a homophobe. Here's the definition from merriam-webster: Definition of HOMOPHOBIA : irrational fear of, aversion to, or discrimination against homosexuality or homosexuals It also includes hatred toward them, which many here seem to display. irrational? who defines that? now i'm irrational and "homophobic"? lol, it just pisses you off when someone can't agree with you... You can disagree with me all you want. That's not what I'm talking about. You have an irrational fear or aversion of anal sex. You seem obsessed with not wanting gay people to have it. That's absolutely irrational.
Edited by singmesweet on Fri 05/17/13 07:23 PM
|
|
singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 25406 |
QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: I'd call it heterophobia.
A strong distaste for normalcy. Hears a great quote the heterophobes could use. Eat chit. 100% of the homosexers can't all be wrong Sorry, man, but just because people disagree with your intolerance of homosexuals, it does not mean they're afraid of, dislike, or have an aversion to straight people. Many of us are straight and are disgusted by your attitude toward gay people. That's not me disliking straight people, though, that's me being disgusted with your attitude. it involves irrational fear, aversion , or discrimination I dont have any irrational fear, irrational aversion, or irrational discrimination, personally I think people are PEOPLE , I dont treat ehem as their sexual preference, but I Can still find certain sexual behaviors deviant,,,, You actually want gay people not to have sex because it bothers you so much. That's irrational. |
|
singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 25406 |
Topic:
How many more times?
QUOTE: QUOTE: All we need is ese and we'll have everyone in here who hates when I ask questions.
I don't hate it when you ask questions. I hate it when you don't accept my answers.
I wasn't talking about you.
|
|
singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 25406 |
QUOTE: excuse me I am no athiest lol.on the contrary.all I reckon is why worry what everyone else is doing I don't.am not homophobic either.am straight and have gay friends and am a staunch supporter of gay rights.i believe free will is just that and people make their own choices.not what others want them to do.if they cock it up they cock it up.if it works for em fine.we all have our own choices good bad or indifferent n don't think others should impose their will or beliefs on everyone else. 
I didn't say you were an atheist. As you can see, I was responding to someone else :). |
|
singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 25406 |
Topic:
How many more times?
All we need is ese and we'll have everyone in here who hates when I ask questions.
|
|
singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 25406 |
QUOTE: QUOTE: good grief come into the 21st century.normal cannot be defined.if 2 people of same sex fall in love,how is that wrong?love doesn't know colour or sexes.it just is.you sound like the old Victorian tempest mob from uk.no offence but at the end of the day live and let live,. we all have views,we all are entitled to live.look around how many hetro relationships are full of vitriol, beatings, murder, divorce, abuse.loads.dont sweep it under the carpet.we are all human and the basic human need is to be loved and wanted.i hate those who bring religion into arguments.religion has nothing to do with who you love.at the end of the day lets be real-jesus wore a long dress and hung around with only guys,.what does that say?
So who defines the definitions of right and wrong? i keep hearing "it's not wrong", but what makes it right? because you say it's right? you don't agree with religion, so anyone that uses religion as a basis is automatically wrong? this love conquers all - even your morality? there's not a point when you ask "is this right?" if people cannot keep self control, then things like this happen... And we keep hearing from you guys that it's not normal or right. Who decides what's normal and what's right? And this coming from an atheist? Are you now going to start siding with those who dislike homosexuality due to religion? |
|
singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 25406 |
QUOTE: QUOTE: Very cute little princess Ms Harmony ! I say if two people are in love than that is their business ! Without prejudice ... Besides who am i to judge anyone else ? PEACE ! 
sweet kik I say love is seperate from sex Im not opposed to people loving either but I do find sexual behaviors like adultery, incest, and homosexual sex to be abnormal and deviant,,,, You're not going to be able to police that, though. If you deny gay people the right to marry, you're not going to be able to stop them from having sex. What I want to know is why so many people worry about who others are having sex with. If gay sex bothers you, why think about it so much? Live your life and stop worrying about who else may be having the kind of sex you feel the need to stop. You're not going to be able to stop it. |
|
singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 25406 |
QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: omg how is the united states so far behind?? us brits have had same sex legalised marriages for years now.nothing wrong with them.why the big hoohaa?i don't get it.good grief.gay people are allowed love and marriage just like anyone is.its no sin!!! As you can see from this thread, some in the us are still very homophobic, so they don't even want gay people to have sex, much less marry. I am personally not scared of anything, thus no phobia but just as I dont 'want' brothers and sisters lying down together, I dont 'want' men lying with men and women lying with women HOWEVER that is irrelevant due to people having control over their own bodies and decisions, including who they bed,, I HAVE NO SAY IN THAT AND IT IS HAPPENING AND WILL HAPPEN what I dont want is government to step in and , in effect, sanction the behaviors anymore than I would want them to make it a crime I accept fully that people can sleep with whomever they choose I dont accept a culture where children will be raised to see heterosexuality as just an 'option', and homosexuality and incest as equally healthy and natural options,,,, adults do what they want, but dont implement it into the culture as a 'protected' and therefore promoted behavior,,, As we all know, homophobia can also mean having a strong dislike or aversion to homosexuality. You have that. What a ludicrous statement! For someone to dislike an abnormal behavior does not make them phobic. It's not ludicrous. You don't have to be afraid of homosexuals to be a homophobe. Here's the definition from merriam-webster: Definition of HOMOPHOBIA : irrational fear of, aversion to, or discrimination against homosexuality or homosexuals It also includes hatred toward them, which many here seem to display.
Edited by singmesweet on Fri 05/17/13 07:55 AM
|
|
singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 25406 |
QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: Eventually all will realize that it isn't their concern to mandate who loves who as long as age and mental consent is considered. If they want to marry or have a civil union they should be able to do either or both if they want. most already realize they cant 'mandate' who anyone 'loves' nor do most want to the issue is who one beds and IM sure 'everyone' wont condone homosexual behavior anymore thaneveryone will condone incest but most will buy into the 'all that matters is consent' nonsense,,, I am pro same same-sex marriage between two consenting adults because I buy into the following definitions of equality, liberty, due process, and civil rights... Definition of LIBERTY 1: the quality or state of being free: a : the power to do as one pleases b : freedom from physical restraint c : freedom from arbitrary or despotic control d : the positive enjoyment of various social, political, or economic rights and privileges e : the power of choice Definition of EQUALITY 1: the quality or state of being equal Definition of DUE PROCESS n. An established course for judicial proceedings or other governmental activities designed to safeguard the legal rights of the individual. Definition of CIVIL RIGHTS The nonpolitical rights of a citizen; especially the rights of personal liberty guaranteed to United States citizens by the 13th and 14th amendments to the Constitution and by acts of Congress 
|
|
singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 25406 |
QUOTE: QUOTE: Eventually all will realize that it isn't their concern to mandate who loves who as long as age and mental consent is considered. If they want to marry or have a civil union they should be able to do either or both if they want. most already realize they cant 'mandate' who anyone 'loves' nor do most want to the issue is who one beds and IM sure 'everyone' wont condone homosexual behavior anymore thaneveryone will condone incest but most will buy into the 'all that matters is consent' nonsense,,, You keep comparing two very different things. Homosexuality and incest are not the same. 
|
|
singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 25406 |
Topic:
How many more times?
QUOTE: ME NO SPEAKY ENGLIS ... 
I've noticed. |
|
singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 25406 |
Topic:
How many more times?
QUOTE: singme, he was just ribbing you.
I'm sure that's what he was trying to do, but thanks for explaining for him.
|
|
singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 25406 |
There are many people out there who are very judgmental about who others have sex with. My guess is those people are not having much sex themselves if they have to attack others for having sex with someone they disapprove of.
|