OK heres a question that I have been wanting to find out. Do men really
like 3-somes? If so, what is the big deal on this? Also, I am very
confident in myself...but I don't think I would ever put my relationship
on the line and bring in someone else. I couldn't imagine watching my
mate with someone else---could any of you other ladies...or am I just
old fashioned??

I know that this may sound odd to some, but I would not want a
threesome. Some of you may call me old fashoned or other descriptives,
but I have been cheated on by both of my ex wives, and I just dont like
the idea of sharing my woman with anybody else... male or female.

Depends on the couples and open mindedness to explore while in a
relationship.

Not everyone will do something like this..but again it's about both
parties communicating on whether or not to happily explore with another
person to have fun with when it comes to 3-somes.

If it makes 2 people happy to have another in order to keep a healthy
relationship...then I guess it's cool...but I wouldn't bet my
relationship on it...but in today's society it's hard for people already
in relationships to stay monogamous with just one partner...

To me in this situation...it's like FOOD you eat...if you and your
special other always like the same type of food...sooner or later you
are going to experiment with something else to keep the suspense going
or to try something new

I have never had one. It is something I always wanted to try. I can not
just go up to a lady ask if she wanted to join me and my partner at the
time. The thrid party would have to be someone who is not a friend as
this would get other ideas started and destroy the relationship. I was
kind of hoping to find an open minded person with an open minded friend
now that I am single again and see if it is as much of a turn on in real
life as my mind has pictured it.

I will say a person I know was dating a girl. She told him she had a
surprize waiting on him when they got back to her apartment. He could
not follow through all the way. He said his IDEAL of a threesome was
much better and one on one sex was much better. I still would like to
find out for myself.

But there is no way I would risk loosing someone either if I had
feelings for them.

I personnel don't want a threesome. I believe a relationship is between
two people not 3 or more. I am a one women men and want the same thing
in return.

I myself would think that if you love your partner, you could find ways
to spice up your relationship in the bedroom. You shouldn't have to
bring in another party to make it spicey! I couldn't imagine being with
someone and bringing in, lets say, another man. I think I would be
worried about how he was feeling watching me with him. Plus if I was
deeply in love with my mate, why would I risk my relationship?
Then if my mate wanted to bring in another woman, I am just SO NOT into
that. I have thought about it, and I thought what if he moans more with
her then he does with me..its kind of funny just to sit here and think
about it---but its true. I think that would just destroy your
relationship.
I would be thinking about him with her every time we did have sex. Then
I think I would be the type to question him a lot..like oh what was it
like with her, was it better with her? Like I said, I am very
comfortable and secure with who I am--but you throw another person into
your relationship, and I think you are just asking for trouble.

i agree wit unsure. a relationship is and shouold always be between two
people. a man and a woman, not the other way around. but if your not in
a relationship what does it matter if your fuck buddies it here today
and gone tomm. what would it matter what he or she thinks about the
other person. your there just for the sex to begin wit.

The thing is it is hard to come across 2 women that want to jump in bed
with a man and fulfill his fantasies. Another issue for me is I am not
into fuck buddies and never have been. So this is part of the reason I
do not know if in person I could get into it or not. I know I will not
be part of a gang bang as that is not personal enough for me.

i like the one on one thang myself. i like to have all the attention and
give all my attention to one man at a time. i have female friend who's
invited me but i've never said yes. also i even went on a date wit a
guy who had a girlfriend but didn't say anything until i arrived and it
pissed me off. whats up wit that?? in any case i said no.