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Joined Wed 08/16/06 Posts: 4230 |
QUOTE: I have met a few. Me and FearandLoathing all stoned......... 
Fear has a nice smile...oh wait no wonder...haha! 
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unsure
Joined Wed 08/16/06 Posts: 4230 |
QUOTE: With 11 marriages between them, my parents saw to it that I went to a lot of high schools. I was always the 'new' girl. So I am 16, new high school, first day and I am packed in an overflowing classroom awaiting the teacher we all just had to have. The teacher arrived to announce the class was double its doable size and she asked for volunteers to vacate to the other class (that no-one wanted.) Silence. Then, I notice, about 4 desks in front of me, a long arm going up, wrapped in the status sweater of a 3rd year varsity athlete of some sport or other. He turns 360* in his seat, and looks at me, hand still raised. He just stares. And begins this slow wicked smile. I swear my hand went up on its own. He jumped up, came to my desk, gathered my books, stacked them with his under his arm, and pulled me by my hand from my seat. As we walked out, never having said a word, the other students all parted to let us by. Out in the hall he just looked at me, raised my hand to his lips, and said 'Hi, my name is Kent.' Unforgettable introduction. We were together until he died at 22. OMG what a love story!! I am so sorry about his death. 
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unsure
Joined Wed 08/16/06 Posts: 4230 |
Topic:
Are You More Nervous Now?
No because I do not want a relationship with anyone from here. I am only looking for friends and then I doubt I would ever meet anyone in person. I like my simple life and just being single!!!
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unsure
Joined Wed 08/16/06 Posts: 4230 |
QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: Actually there probably has not been a study comparing the equality of temptation of laziness to temptation of molesting children. But, there is proof of extreme high recitivism rates of molesters. But, this is not the issue here at hand. He has acted twice that we know of. Was convicted. Was released with stipulations. He didn not follow the rules of his release. That is his charge. So, why would someone continue to try to distract from the real issue? To defend something we aren't even talking about? Why would you compare your desire to be lazy with his desire to molest children. I find that an odd comparison. Are you trying to say there should not be a sexual offender registry? That would be way off topic, as there is, and he broke the rules. Simple as that. I think she was simply giving an example to help express her point. And I think it was an odd comparison and isn't about the issue we are discussing. He is in jail for breaking terms of his release. We have laws we have to abide by. If not we go to jail. So, he is there because HE put himself there. I understand that everyone liked him...but HELLO PEOPLE, DO NOT TRY TO DEFEND HIM. Comparing child molesting to being lazy? WTH are you thinking???? |
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unsure
Joined Wed 08/16/06 Posts: 4230 |
LOL nope, I am sure this time.
I do have to say that when someone says that these type of people can be fixed...they can't. They have done study after study showing that they always have visions of children on their minds, so there is no setting them free and letting them start over. OK I am done with this except for saying..I know a lot of you guys loved Lex BUT it is what it is...he is a sick person and thank God he never messed with anyone's child on here. I am saddened that he messed with any child. God Bless those children and may Lex or whoever the hell he is rot in hell. 
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unsure
Joined Wed 08/16/06 Posts: 4230 |
Sorry but I always thought something was odd about him. I never liked him and I have been here for a long time...he just gave me this funny creepy feeling. You know what they say, listen to your gut!!!
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unsure
Joined Wed 08/16/06 Posts: 4230 |
Topic:
On His Own Terms
I lost my Dad in 08 with Hospice at his home also. It is a heart breaker. I am very sorry about your Dad and I wanted to let you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
May God bless your family and help you through this. 
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unsure
Joined Wed 08/16/06 Posts: 4230 |
Topic:
Friends or Lovers or Both?
QUOTE: QUOTE: I could never do it...I have to actually LOVE someone before I ever sleep with them. So to me IF someone asked me that...I would not even answer them..I would just walk away and never look back. TURN OFF! I think the only ones that want FWB are people that won't do a committed relationship...I myself am a lady and expect to be treated like one. I want to be the only one...I don't share nicely!!! So you want to see if they'll wait for you to fall in love before having sex? Awesome for you if they do wait around! I actually have to date someone for a set amount of time before anything sexual happens. If they don't wait around then they were not worth my time, at least this is my rules and it is working very well for me. I don't want a man who thinks he can come over and jump in bed with me and leave my house and go and be with someone else. It is my body so it is my rules!! I guess I am at that point to where I don't need a man in my life...I am very content with how things are. So if he doesn't like my way, then I don't need all the drama 
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unsure
Joined Wed 08/16/06 Posts: 4230 |
Topic:
children n racism
I have always taught my boys that color does not matter. My best friend has a bi-racial daughter and my boys kept telling her she had a pretty tan. So my friend said, you really need to tell the boys. I said you tell them because I am teaching them that color does not matter. So she told them and they said OH OK..no big deal and just went about the day. I told my friend that my family would probably be a rainbow of colors and it didn't matter because we all bleed red.
LOVE IS LOVE, FIND SOMEONE WHO TREATS YOU RIGHT AND DON'T LOOK AT THE COLOR!! |
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Joined Wed 08/16/06 Posts: 4230 |
Topic:
Friends or Lovers or Both?
QUOTE: Don't get me wrong. I don't mind if the woman has more assets/income than I do. I just need to have some and not spend it all on doctor bills. So you think women need your money? |
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unsure
Joined Wed 08/16/06 Posts: 4230 |
Topic:
Friends or Lovers or Both?
I could never do it...I have to actually LOVE someone before I ever sleep with them. So to me IF someone asked me that...I would not even answer them..I would just walk away and never look back. TURN OFF!
I think the only ones that want FWB are people that won't do a committed relationship...I myself am a lady and expect to be treated like one. I want to be the only one...I don't share nicely!!! |
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unsure
Joined Wed 08/16/06 Posts: 4230 |
Topic:
IF U LOVE SOMEONE
If someone is not happy with you, why would you want them to stay? IF you are not happy with someone, why would you stay? LIFE IS WAY TO SHORT AND RELATIONSHIPS ARE WAY TO HARD EVEN WHEN YOU ARE IN LOVE.
I honestly think IF you have ever had a health issue that could have led to death, I have, then you feel totally different about relationships and a lot of things. Life is short and you don't want to waste a minute on someone you don't love or on someone that doesn't love you back!!!! |
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unsure
Joined Wed 08/16/06 Posts: 4230 |
Actually I would tell her that IF this didn't stop..YOU were going to go speak to the principal and have her butt pulled in along with all of the people involved. The schools around here will NOT put up with any kind of bullying at all. You have to be the adult in this situation because kids are really immature and stupid when it comes to this kind of stuff, so to show her how a mature person handles it...give her a big decision that she has to make. EITHER STOP THE CRAP OR YOU ALL WILL BE TALKING IN FRONT OF A LOT OF PEOPLE TOGETHER AND COMING TO AN AGREEMENT REAL FAST!!! GROW UP GIRLS~NOW!!
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unsure
Joined Wed 08/16/06 Posts: 4230 |
I truly believe when you say you are BI...you are just trying things out to see if you like it. You are either gay or you're not! I myself have nothing against with gay people..but when you start being a BI and then do not tell the other person you are in a relationship you are with, that is when the problems begin.
Of course this is just my opinion and we all have one. 
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unsure
Joined Wed 08/16/06 Posts: 4230 |
Topic:
MINGLE WHERE? WITH WHO?
Not everyone spends a lot of time on here...I only pop on from time to time. We all have our reasons for doing what we do...work, health or other things. I pop on here mostly because I have a few friends that send me emails and we keep in touch on a weekly basis...we lean on each other for different reasons.
IF you are seriously looking, then you need to post more so people can find out more about you. People may not say much but they do take notice on what others say! |
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unsure
Joined Wed 08/16/06 Posts: 4230 |
Topic:
Over 40 Ladies PLEASE !!!
LOL that is funny...you act like IF you are in your 40's everyone poses like that to hide the neck thing? I don't try to hide anything and I am proud to say how old I am...this is me, I don't mind who doesn't likes the way I look because I am happy with it.
NOTE TO MEN...STOP POSTING YOUNGER PICTURES! HAHA WE ALL GROW OLDER, BE HAPPY THAT YOU GET ANOTHER YEAR!!! 
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unsure
Joined Wed 08/16/06 Posts: 4230 |
Topic:
Our greatest fear
I think everyone has something they fear but are afraid to admit it. My biggest fear is that I had to deal with cancer once and that it will come back and the next time, I won't be so lucky!
I believe in God and trust me...I had so many prayers that got me through my rough patch. They always say that God never gives us more then we can handle, I just hope that is true! |
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unsure
Joined Wed 08/16/06 Posts: 4230 |
Topic:
Our greatest fear
QUOTE: I have two fears: 1. If I go to heaven, it will be full of pontificating dullards who make no or little sense and I will be intellectually starved forever. I don't want to hear about god because I don't even believe it exits. I don't want to hear unscientific and dumbfounded theories about what is this and what is that. I like to think I can figure those things out on my own much better, thank you very much. 2. If I go to hell, it will hurt. To me it sounds like you are in bad shape. You don't believe in God but yet you think going to hell will hurt? All I can say to you is good luck buddy! |
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unsure
Joined Wed 08/16/06 Posts: 4230 |
Topic:
parents with teens,,,
Actually, I tell them exactly how I feel. IF I don't like them, I tell them the truth. I usually don't sugar coat anything. I tell my boy's the way it is, and in the long run then end up telling me I was right.
Usually I can tell after 5 minutes of talking to a girl IF they are right for my boy's. IF I don't think they are...I usually say, I think you need to make a list about the pro's and con's and really think about this one, I didn't get a good vibe from her at all. Now did I ever listen to my parents? NO..I has to learn the hard way so I am glad that my boys listen!! 
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Joined Wed 08/16/06 Posts: 4230 |
Topic:
fathers.
QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: why do you think some fathers distance themselves from their pregnant partner or the child after it's born? I just think some people were not meant to be parents. I am not one to judge their decision but maybe the kid is better off without the dad. JMO No no no you're a little off this time. There were studies done and the biggest forewarning of a kid going to jail, etc., was lack of a father figure involvement. I think they were 3x more likely to have societal, behavioral and criminal activities. I'd have to look it back up and be for sure, but 3x sounds right, and I don't feel like looking it up tonight!! For all that info the ladies owe me a smooch! 
I have actually raised my boys alone...they have never been in jail or had any kind of criminal activity. I do believe that 1 parent can raise a child and teach them the correct way of becoming a great man or woman...I have young men. It is sad to say that not every one's life turns out the way we plan...a nice house with a white picket fence and a loving husband and father. BUT I will say, I am ONE HELL of a good Mom!! I think that some men just realize that after they have a child that they have to settle down and that isn't what they were looking for after all. A child is a lot of work but they are well worth it in the end. I must say that I wish every child could have a Dad like I did, then maybe this world would be a much better place. I LOVE YOU DAD AND I MISS YOU...UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN, ANGEL KISSES!!
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