I have actually dated younger guys except for one man. I will say that I think older men are more settled down and are not into any kind of games. I myself always thought that age was just a number, I go by the maturity
of each person.
I have a few tests that I actually give to my dates and they don't even
know it. IF they can not pass those tests, then I drop them right away.
Life is short so you should be with the one who treats you the best!!
Good luck to everyone!!

I don't know IF I had to straighten up someone's place before I felt comfy, I don't think I would want to be there. I have to admit, I am kinda strange about people keeping their place clean...if their place is not clean or it smells strange, I won't be sitting down any where. My Dad always told me...IF YOU HAVE TO SAY, EXCUSE MY MESS...GET OFF YOUR LAZY A$$ AND CLEAN YOUR HOUSE!!! So I would say that I am a clean freak...thanks Dad!!!
But I don't think it would be my job to clean someone's place...I don't live there!!

Just remember this, if you are to thin..then you are anorexic but yet if you have some meat on your bones you are to thick. The main question is, are YOU happy with yourself? If you are, then who cares what anyone else thinks?
There is only ONE person in this lifetime that you have to please. That person is YOU. When you are happy with yourself, it shows. You have a lot more confidence...men think women with confidence are sexy. Hold your head up high and LOVE YOURSELF!!!!

dmckinnon...do you still talk now? Did you feel any kind of connection with this person? If you still like her, you need to talk to her and see how she feels. Maybe she is afraid to make the first move towards you?
IF you had a connection, never give up until they actually tell you that they did not have any kind of feelings what so ever!
I don't think you have to much to worry about, you are a nice looking man with beautiful eyes....you will meet that right one some day. I hope you have the great personality to go with the looks!

My best:Before I say anything, I always ask myself is this going to hurt their feelings? I am very considerate, honest, and I am a very caring person...sometimes to caring. I think you have to have a special kind of heart to work with elderly people. I have always felt so comfortable helping them and working with them...they can't do it on their own.


My worst: When I want something done, I want it done right now. Not in a few minutes, that very second. IF it won't be done right then, I will do it myself.

My whole thought process is this, why would you ask her for a kiss? That does nothing but make things so strange...IF you felt like she was inviting you in for the kiss, why didn't you just go for it? When you ask permission, IF there was that special moment, you just blew it all to he!!.
I don't know maybe you are trying to be a gentleman but please do not ask anyone if you can kiss them. That is like a trick question...if I say yes, then am I rushing things..if I say no am I being a prude. IF YOU ACTUALLY FEEL THE TIMING IS RIGHT, JUST DO IT. IF SHE DOESN'T SHE WILL TURN HER CHEEK TO YOU...THEN YOU KNOW IT WAS JUST TO EARLY!!!

Why do you men think that you should be jerks? Do you really think women like this? Trust me, IF our girl crowd goes out and a guy acts like a jerk...we tell everyone what a jerk and an idiot he is and not to waste your time to even talk to them.
WOMEN DO NOT LIKE JERKS...EVER!!!!!!

My question is this...why is there a waiting period? Is it so you won't look desperate or something? My point is do you really think that person is going to sit around and wait for you to call? If they get a chance to go out with someone else, they won't be sitting home waiting for your call!
I myself, would never call a man. IF they can not call me...then we would never talk again. I am really strange about giving out my phone number too. I had a stalker for over 2 years and it was terrifying so not to many people have my number. If a strange guy came up and asked me for number, I probably would not give it to them. If he wanted to give me his...I might call him and block my number BUT I don't even know if I would do that!!
My point is....STOP PUTTING A TIME LIMIT ON WHEN YOU ARE SUPPOSE TO CALL SOMEONE, JUST CALL THEM AND LET THEM KNOW YOU ARE INTERESTED! STOP PLAYING GAMES!!!

ALL I KNOW IS THAT IF I HAD TO GO OVER MATH PROBLEMS LIKE THIS ALL THE TIME, I WOULD RATHER BE SINGLE THEN BE WITH A GUY THAT THINKS HE CAN CONVINCE ME THAT 2+2=5.
I BELIEVE THIS GUY SHOULD GO TO A COLLEGE MATH TEACHER AND SEE WHAT HE WOULD SAY. I PROMISE HE WOULD FLUNK THAT CLASS REAL QUICK!!!

OK lets be honest here...if it is one of my friends and they asked me if they looked fat in something, I would tell them the truth. If they look fat, I say lets find something that is more slimming for you. We have this "rule" that we would never let the other one go out looking fat..LOL we tell each other the truth. BUT we do it in a nice way to where we are not going to hurt each others feelings. But afterwards we both laugh and they say, I looked bad in that didn't I...then I say OH HELL YES!!! Then we chuckle and let it go. This is what you call true friendship!!!!
If I asked my boyfriend if I looked fat (when I had one) and if he would have said yes....I would have just taken off my clothes and put on my pj's and stayed home. It is so different if a man tells you or your girlfriend. So you just have to be careful who it is and how you say it!!!
I love my friends because I love their honesty!!!

I have had money and I have been poor. I had a guy with a good personality and a guy with a bad personality. I myself would take a man with a good personality and poor. Money does NOT buy love!! Sure it can make you happy for awhile but then you realize OMG what have I done. Esp when you can not handle his lifestyle and how he acts towards your family.
I WILL PICK THAT WONDERFUL MAN WITH A PERSONALITY AND NO MONEY ANY TIME BECAUSE AS LONG AS THE BILLS ARE PAID...WHAT ELSE DO YOU REALLY NEED? LOVE CAN NOT BE BOUGHT, IT HAS TO BE EARNED!!!!

I honestly try not to do that! I met someone one time and we both decided that we would talk for a while before we exchanged pictures. IF you talk first, I promise you won't care what that person looks like. I think personality is the key and how you both connect to each other! I actually talked to a man for about a year and then we decided to exchange pictures. Then we started talking on the phone and our connection was great. When I got his picture I was not disappointed at all, I was already crazy about him and wanted things to move ahead.
So NOT everyone goes by looks alone...I go by personality and how they treat me!!!

I like to think that I have taught them many good example so they can become fine young men. I have always taught them Never to make fun of anyone and IF you see someone who is making fun of someone, help them out and don't join in on it!
You can fall in love with anyone no matter what colour they are. Love has no colour.
Never trust anyone except your family because today's society has gone absolutely mad. Never pick up anyone on the road wanting a ride, unless you know me.
ALWAYS show respect to your elders. If you are out and see someone putting groceries away, you ask them if they need help.
I have never had alcohol or drugs in my home.
I do not bring home men to my home.
IF A GIRL IS GOOD ENOUGH TO SLEEP WITH, THEN SHE IS GOOD ENOUGH TO BE THE MOTHER OF YOUR CHILDREN!!!!
There is a lot more but I won't bore you

I think your reasons are a bunch of bs! I do not fit any of those reasons on why you wouldn't marry a woman besides who says that woman would marry you!!

I think if you meet someone and have sex right away, it boggles your mind. You don't know if you like them for sex or if you like them for them. You have to wait awhile to have a sexual relationship and really get to know that person.
I think person jump into bed to fast without really knowing the other person. I think if we would just slow down and get to know each other maybe relationships would be based on more then just a sexual thing.

Why do you want to meet someone abroad? Trust me, that brings nothing but problems! If you plan on moving abroad, good luck..it is so hard getting into another country any more!
I met someone from New Zealand and we could not believe everything we had to go through to get one of us to move into the other country. It just became so difficult that we just had to say good-bye to each other. Then you always have those question of what if...no, it is not a good thing!!!

EXACTLY!!!!

Where do all these bitter females meet the father's? Do you really know the guys that you sleep with? You are suppose to really know them before you make a baby, but yet so many of the females say they all lie. I guess I got lucky and me and my ex are actually very good friends and we just couldn't live together.
It is strange, since the boys are grown we still get together with them and do the Christmas stuff and birthdays...I guess I am lucky that I have a great father for my boys!
I JUST WONDER IF THE MEN FEEL THE SAME WAY ABOUT THE WOMEN???

It seems like cancer is taking over. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
Always lean toward God and he will help you and your family get through this tough time. God has taken away her pain already...he will take away your pain next from losing her.
Never say Good-bye, just say I will see you on the other side.
God Bless you and your family

NO!
MARRIED=OFF LIMITS!
STICK TO YOUR VOWS OR GET A DIVORCE!
WHY INVOLVE SOMEONE ELSE INTO YOUR DRAMA?