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Topic: Cheating before marriage
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Sun 12/14/08 03:25 PM
Thank you for the response SitkaRains .....(and everyone else).
I had to laugh at your "no excuse for cheating" statement. If you were to hear my ex and his friends tell the story you'd hear 20-30 excuses for his cheating......and half of them are my fault. grumble

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Sun 12/14/08 03:29 PM

Thank you for the response SitkaRains .....(and everyone else).
I had to laugh at your "no excuse for cheating" statement. If you were to hear my ex and his friends tell the story you'd hear 20-30 excuses for his cheating......and half of them are my fault. grumble
can never accept the blame my ex is doing that now

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Sun 12/14/08 03:37 PM

:thumbsup: once a cheater always a cheater and a loser
What she said

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Sun 12/14/08 03:58 PM
thank you, I actually feel like I can speak from both sides since I did it. I meant what I said it doesn't matter what he did that lead up to my actions. They were mine and my responsibilities. I can also say when it happened to me I then understood the pain of not just a relationship ending but the pain of betrayel etc...
So in my book there is no excuse for cheating.
I say if he is making all the excuses then he will do it again.

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Sun 12/14/08 06:35 PM
If you want doubt, distrust, and heartache go for it. Because thats what you'll have if you take him back.

I just read a book, a woman describes how a mans finger, like a compass needle always points to a woman, the fault is always a womans.

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Mon 12/15/08 09:38 AM

1st I want to say I'm sorry that you went through all that, 2nd people do make mistakes but only ONCE, after that it’s no longer a mistake it’s on purpose

I think how one explains their mistakes....says as much about them. My ex seemed to think it was all no big deal because we were not yet married.bGetting it out his system was what he said at one point. 2 years of engagement and wedding planning....gone....2 years wasted with that sleeze....I want to throw a shoe at him....from 10 miles up.:angry:

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Mon 12/15/08 12:56 PM
It's a sorry "excuse" for his bad habits...there is no excuse

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