There are umpteen options for the flirts to be handled wisely...without either person becoming antisocial in the process.

Should a relationship cause the lovers to grow porcupine quills? (Oh! Poor them. They were such nice people, until they hooked up. Blyech.)

ive found it depends on how good looking your friend is (as bad as that sounds). it has happened between a couple of my friends recently, but she wasn't worried because she knew her boyfriend would never ever do anything with the other girl. if its a hot chick though she gets real paranoid

Oh, I flirt mercilessly with all my friends women. (They know that I got no intentions of tapping it)

I will do it right in front of both of them...."Oh baby! When you two split up ya gotta give me a shot at you cause I LOVE YOU"...and then I turn to my friend and say "When you two split up, I will go Gay for a day so I can bone you too" That is generally when the chick laughs her head off.

But, all the women enjoy it and I am the one friend that everyones old lady don't mind hanging out with.

All I have to say is that both of my ex-husbands are currently married to my ex-friends! Apparently I have made some poor choices in friends...and husbands

I'd have a talk with my partner and voice how i felt

I was lucky, she left with him. Yea for my team.

crack the friends fing skull.... sorry thats a sore spot for me

it happens

Tell the friend to back the f--k off if they want to continue to be your friend...

This would definitely be something that would irritate me because I have a very tight-nit group of friends.

The second I was able to get him alone I would ask if he was drunk or wanted to piss me off and make it clear that if he does it again we have a problem.

I am not a freakishly jealous person, (and I know there are different types of people some flirt, some only flirt if the gal is single and some don't care). It just comes down to basic respect.

I was being nice earlier i wanna change my answer I'd hit them in da head with a frying pan

Grow some confidence people....

perhaps you are seeing this from a different angle than I am....

are you seriously nervous about your friend giving attention to your partner?



Am I really seeing a bunch of panzies who would rather kick the sh*t out of thier friend..or just abandon thier friend instead of putting up with good natured and joking friendship to set that person's significant other at ease among the friends of thier lover?

You people would HATE me.

and yes...I would still flirt with your women...wether you like it or not....

that should only make you try harder to please her...cause if I out flirt you..what the hell is your lazy @ss doing?

personally my man wouldn't need to say something to his friend about flirting with me I'd put the friend in check