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Topic: Would you be offended?
It_Gyrl Joined Tue 08/05/08 Posts: 225	Mon 12/29/08 05:03 PM
No, not in the least shrug

Redshirt Joined Tue 02/26/08 Posts: 2109	Mon 12/29/08 05:05 PM
Not unless the album is dedicated to them.

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Mon 12/29/08 05:05 PM
Nope. Wouldn't bother me unless it got in the way of our relationship.

SweetnFunny Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 687	Mon 12/29/08 05:07 PM
Would you be offended if your partner kept photos of their ex in photo albums? Naw. I could draw mustaches & horns on them. You really are sweet and funny Thank you!

Blaze1978 Joined Tue 03/25/08 Posts: 1281	Mon 12/29/08 05:47 PM
No, as long as they don't have a shrine devoted to the ex.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 12/29/08 05:49 PM
No, as long as they don't have a shrine devoted to the ex. I agree

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Mon 12/29/08 05:49 PM
if your partner had moved on why would they want to keep a picture of their ex? Perhaps they're still friends?

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Mon 12/29/08 05:50 PM
And no, it wouldn't bother me.

BossLadyL27 Joined Sun 12/14/08 Posts: 1	Mon 12/29/08 05:53 PM
I would not be offended. It's part of their life, it's the past, you are the present and hopefully the future. If you are secure in your relationship and they are not mooning over those old pics, then it's just memorabilia. You have to pick your battles in any relationship and unnecesary tension over something that trivial is just not worth it to me. If, however they are always pulling the pics out, then there are unresolved issues that need to be addressed. Then there would be reason to discuss it seriously.

Roamer66 Joined Wed 12/24/08 Posts: 169	Mon 12/29/08 05:54 PM
if your partner had moved on why would they want to keep a picture of their ex? Perhaps they're still friends? friends with or without benefits? lol

Krimsa Joined Fri 04/25/08 Posts: 9960	Mon 12/29/08 06:00 PM
Would you be offended if your partner kept photos of their ex in photo albums? No not at all. Thats a part of their past. It does not involve me. I am their present. Now if they were staring at old photos of their ex for hours each day, then yes, I would comment. But just photos in an album, of course not.

angelindarkness Joined Sun 11/25/07 Posts: 6492	Tue 12/30/08 05:09 AM
Would you be offended if your partner kept photos of their ex in photo albums? Not if they were put away in the far corner of a closet. If they still carried around a photo of them in their wallet (like an ex did)? Yeah, I'd have to wonder what was up with the person. Unfinished business, most likely. Carrying a torch. Regretting something they felt guilty for that they didn't want to change about themselves, probably.

BertDCaveman Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 1651	Tue 12/30/08 05:13 AM
Pictures no but I might sell the videos to a porn site

bad_girl Joined Tue 07/17/07 Posts: 67379	Tue 12/30/08 05:16 AM
No, that is part of their past and as long as the past doesn't come back to haunt him, I am okay with it

Fujiyama Joined Mon 12/29/08 Posts: 68	Tue 12/30/08 05:43 AM
Would you be offended if your partner kept photos of their ex in photo albums? I wouldn't mind it if he kept them hidden away so I didn't have to run a cross them on a daily basis. I have pics of a few of my ex's and never even think to dig them out to look at them.

Giocamo Joined Tue 08/19/08 Posts: 3297	Tue 12/30/08 05:52 AM
nope...as long as he's not naked as a jaybird...the pics wouldn't bother me a bit...

SitkaRains Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 17228	Tue 12/30/08 07:22 AM
Would you be offended if your partner kept photos of their ex in photo albums? Not at all, that is part of their past everyone has one. I guess if I found some semi nude pictures that he kept I might be a bit bothered by it.

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Tue 12/30/08 07:33 AM
They have pic.'s of their ex? Why? If they still do, there is a reason for them keeping the photo's. As for me, I ditched mine because, I moved on. I have no need to keep such thing's.

angelindarkness Joined Sun 11/25/07 Posts: 6492	Tue 12/30/08 08:24 PM
depends if there are kids involved.. You have a point. But if they don't and the pic is in a prominent place? Yeah, I'd say thats "unfinished business".

JustAGuy2112 Joined Sun 12/16/07 Posts: 18033	Tue 12/30/08 08:26 PM
I see a whole lot of people sitting there saying they wouldn't be offended, but I really think it depends on the situation. My ex kept pics of her and her ex that she took while they were having sex. " For the memories "...yeah...ummm....sorry... I wasn't pleased with that at all.