Ex girlfriends have to be so malicious??? I go to the same college as my ex girlfriend and it just so happens that she lives on the floor right below me. Well, today she decided to pay me a visit to "talk" well, she decided to use that time to say pretty much anything and everything possible to hurt me as deeply as possible. I mean What The Hell, what is the damn purpose in doing that?!?!?!?

Some people are evil

well at least you can say thats why she's your ex

And thank god. If only that would make her leave me alone though!

Because all women are *****es. Oh and we lash out when we're hurt too.

Why though? What is the point, it only makes things worse than they were before, before I was thinking I'd still try and be friends with her, but hell, not after what she just did, she doesn't deserve that sort of kindness.

she may not have realized how mean she was being but instead was venting things she had not yet overcome on her own terms..she felt they needed to be heard and could find no better way to vocalize those things except through being a, well..what do they say about wives being a nagging b**ch?
Tell to work on her "communication" skills.....

I actually did tell her to work on her "communication" skills, she just got even more mad at me and said even more spiteful things about me.

Eh when a girl is hurt by a guy she remembers no matter how many years it's been.

Eh when a girl is hurt by a guy she remembers no matter how many years it's been.

Because she can

But why though, I mean does it make her feel like she's accomplished something?

she probably too it as sarcasm and added insult to her already hurt feelings..let it go..she needed a vent time..this is one of those when sh*t hits the ceiling just let it pass..remember she feels the way she does because of what happened between ya'll she just doesn't know how to deal with it..

Yeah, I understand that, it's just like is it really necessary to make me feel like S**t just because she doesn't know how to deal with her emotions?

Yes, unfortunately

Idk, I just think it's ridiculous of her because here I am ready to move on and see other girls whereas she won't drop it and she keeps causing drama. She's already ruined my chances with about 4 girls that I've brought back to my room. One time, I was out with a girl named Amy and we had a great time, I brought her back to my room and my ex was in the room somehow laying in my bed in her bra and panties, I mean what the F**k!!!!

okay, well thats just crazy...and um stalker-ish..but mostly crazy..ask for a room change..I'm sure they can accommodate..course you would also have to lay down the law firmly to miss crazy pants...good luck

I've already asked them about changing rooms, unfortunately for me though, it would cost me an extra $2,000 because I've already paid for this dorm 100%

I say do to her what a woman would do to a man in this situation.

Call the cops, get a restraining order, and have her put on the sex offenders list.

Seriously though, women these days are raised to do whatever 'feels good'. They no longer have the capacity to think through thier actions before they do something except to determine whether it will 'feel good' emotionally for themselves.

Just wait for her to finish stroking her own ego, then calmly say 'I did not know you still had such strong feelings toward me' and close the door.

well that sucks...yeah if she becomes to trouble some next time she shows up unwelcome call the cops..give her a heads up warning though..in front of your roomate(if you have one), course that also means you should not agree to her visiting anymore at all...