Mixed Signals.... Couple questions.

he says "you are not my type" but pays you complements out of the blue in relation to what a faithful spouse you would be - to those he knows would happily report such compliments to you ?

He says he hates you, but then introduces you as "my friend" to one of his friends with a smile later?

he agrees to get together to "discuss personal matters" (namely mixed signals) but then once you start to address the issue (that you went WAY out of your way to resolve) completely changes th subject?

He refuses to look you in the eyes, but then stares at pictures of you on the wall, blankly, when he knows you can see what he's doing?

when he refuses to talk to you for months on end, but then upon the next encounter wants to show you some lame card tricks - while completely sober?

Ohhh...I've got tons more. Just ask!

means he has mental issues...run girl run

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A few more to keep you entertained....

Tries advising you not to hang out with another guy (whose a decent long term friend) for reasons of "standards of friendship should be higher" when his friends are even worse.

Asks you to help him with something, but when you do refuses your help.

Famous one: Says, "I can't talk to you anymore" because my (new, lame) girlfriend gave me an ultimatum.

Says new relationship "is not serious" but then goes & spends more than $300 dollars to buy her a mut-dog when times are tight.

I'm sure I'll think of some more. Please feel free to share your mixed signals too.

Time to move on...sorry

I have to agree with the others. This guy just doesn't seem at all mentally stable.

Maybe he likes you and just dont want to be too straight forward with it!

It means he's an idiot and you should walk away from him and never look back.

You have met the EVIL Manipulator!!!!


He will consume your soul....


Better get an exorcist!

Dont think so. Sounds like he's uninterested, but a jealous clingy type who doesnt want to give you up. He wants to know he can have you, which your obviously proving to him, but doesnt truly want to be with you. Sorrry hun...

Throw rocks at him.

It doesnt sound worth the trouble to me, and sounds like you think the same.

Any one person that did all these things I wouldn't be wanting a intimate talk with them instead I think I would be handing them a gift Certificate to the local mental health center.

you know those things were supposed to stay private between you and me. why are you here telling everyone?

Marry him

Should she have some empties handy????

Oh child, I read your profile, and you are the twentysomething kind of young person I hope my granddaughters grow up to be.

You have some options here with this relationship!
You can say,"I don't deserve to be treated this way, and I have the power to just walk away!
You can continue as you are.
You can reach for the support of your friends and enjoy all the wonderful things they will mirror to you about who you are.

The guy is nutso. Be afraid, be very afraid.

FYI - have not spoken to this guy in years - but recently learned of the back door compliments.

You guys are SO fun that it makes me want to fabricate, just to see how you'd react to more! Am I allowed to type that on this national forum? (all previous examples were 100% true)

Common! Am I the only one that has ever received mixed signals from soldierofamerica? (That part is not true. If it were I'm sure the mixed signals would have been much more enjoyable ti endure - as at least he has a sense of humor).

How come no one else is admitting to dealing with mixed signals?.... (crickets chirping in the background).

Rhonda