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Topic: Need advice about a dude I just met!!!
Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Thu 01/29/09 10:35 AM
Ok, so he just texted me back after I had called him like 2 hours ago and he said "What did you have in mind?" I hate when guys ask this question. I never have anything in mind other than I just want to hang out with you! so take this as a chance to come up with something. Guys always do this. They don't wanna make the decision.

becca777 Joined Tue 08/05/08 Posts: 2161	Thu 01/29/09 10:42 AM
i feel like that group of Verizon 'support team' following her around.... hehe

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Thu 01/29/09 10:46 AM
can u hear me now?

becca777 Joined Tue 08/05/08 Posts: 2161	Thu 01/29/09 10:48 AM
gooood

buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Thu 01/29/09 10:50 AM
i feel like that group of Verizon 'support team' following her around.... hehe

Tazz42 Joined Fri 02/29/08 Posts: 9660	Thu 01/29/09 10:53 AM
That's a tough one, it's sounds like there is more to the story I have to agree with PATS....to me it sounds like he may have "another" ....... You just never know!

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Thu 01/29/09 10:55 AM Edited by RKISIT on Thu 01/29/09 10:55 AM
for what its worth....if people would say or ask the one who they type a thread about...whats up or tell how they feel about that person actions,then maybe the problems could be resolved....sometimes going to the person and actually asking them will provide you the answers you seek.also could help you in your decision process.personally i can't read the other persons mind...i can only assume which is useless

lizziebiz Joined Tue 01/20/09 Posts: 222	Thu 01/29/09 10:56 AM
haha ok well...i don't even want to explain, but not what I was hoping for. It's kind of embarrassing to be so wrong about someone! lol I guess that was like a bandaid.

cfb62 Joined Fri 09/28/07 Posts: 17	Fri 01/30/09 12:00 PM
I don't understand why you don't just ask him what he meant?

MsCarmen Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 6282	Fri 01/30/09 12:06 PM
haha ok well...i don't even want to explain, but not what I was hoping for. It's kind of embarrassing to be so wrong about someone! lol I guess that was like a bandaid. Huh?

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Fri 01/30/09 01:12 PM Edited by Jess642 on Fri 01/30/09 01:12 PM
Ok, so I met this guy on sunday and we ended up hanging out, going out, and spending the whole night together. We made out and that sort of thing, but nothing really sexual. He was really fun and really sweet and he said something like "we should do this every sunday" and other things that made it sound like he wanted to hang out in the future. The next morning he left before I woke up and I texted him and asked him what time he left and hope he had a good day. In the text he wrote back "let me know when you're bored again haha especially during the day" Does this mean he actually wants to hang out and if so what's with the "especially during the day" thing...or is this just one of those things guys say when they're being nice but they really have no intention of seeing you again? I've heard a lot of those, but I'm not sure about this one. errr... can you say loser? this guy is up for a booty call and probably has 12 children to three wives, two mistresses and a parole officer..

feralcatlady Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 35491	Fri 01/30/09 01:18 PM
When he comes over I would hand him the phone and look puzzled and say your wife is on the phone? His face will say it all.