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Topic: A successful relationship...
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Fri 01/30/09 02:00 PM
so could anyone stay with someone for say like ....................... 2 years if there was no sex?? and they wanted you to wait until a wedding night

timiboi's photo
Fri 01/30/09 03:05 PM

so could anyone stay with someone for say like ....................... 2 years if there was no sex?? and they wanted you to wait until a wedding night


I heard some people do...

2 things I've gone through for 9 years and are important but there was some missunderstanding between me and the wife...

I believe the #1 important thing about having a successfull relationship is " COMMUNICATION " I kept telling my ex wife to communicate and she would always hold in things that were bad. At the very end she exploaded and she ended up filing divorce. She wants time alone. I think we are getting remarried again maybe in 6 months once she finds who she is again.

#2 important thing is friends. You gotta watch out on who you are hanging out with. Your partner may disagree with you hanging out with them and you'll end up having a crappy relationship.

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Fri 01/30/09 03:09 PM


so could anyone stay with someone for say like ....................... 2 years if there was no sex?? and they wanted you to wait until a wedding night


I heard some people do...

2 things I've gone through for 9 years and are important but there was some missunderstanding between me and the wife...

I believe the #1 important thing about having a successfull relationship is " COMMUNICATION " I kept telling my ex wife to communicate and she would always hold in things that were bad. At the very end she exploaded and she ended up filing divorce. She wants time alone. I think we are getting remarried again maybe in 6 months once she finds who she is again.

#2 important thing is friends. You gotta watch out on who you are hanging out with. Your partner may disagree with you hanging out with them and you'll end up having a crappy relationship.


are you saying that you should ditch your friends becuase she doesn't like them??

catwoman96's photo
Fri 01/30/09 03:19 PM
its gotta be all or nothing

timiboi's photo
Fri 01/30/09 06:34 PM



so could anyone stay with someone for say like ....................... 2 years if there was no sex?? and they wanted you to wait until a wedding night


I heard some people do...

2 things I've gone through for 9 years and are important but there was some missunderstanding between me and the wife...

I believe the #1 important thing about having a successfull relationship is " COMMUNICATION " I kept telling my ex wife to communicate and she would always hold in things that were bad. At the very end she exploaded and she ended up filing divorce. She wants time alone. I think we are getting remarried again maybe in 6 months once she finds who she is again.

#2 important thing is friends. You gotta watch out on who you are hanging out with. Your partner may disagree with you hanging out with them and you'll end up having a crappy relationship.


are you saying that you should ditch your friends becuase she doesn't like them??


Yes and no.. But if you really love her, then you would do anything for her. There are more people out there where YOU and your love can get along with. I was hanging out with the wrong people and it messed up my relationship forcing me to get a divorce. I got what I deserved. But she is giving me a chance to remarry her soon...

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Fri 01/30/09 06:37 PM

the sexual aspect is the most important part in a relationship, if you know how to make your women have multiple-orgasms everytime, I think everything else will fall in place! :banana:



Yep, she will worship the ground you walk on. bigsmile

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Fri 01/30/09 06:38 PM




so could anyone stay with someone for say like ....................... 2 years if there was no sex?? and they wanted you to wait until a wedding night


I heard some people do...

2 things I've gone through for 9 years and are important but there was some missunderstanding between me and the wife...

I believe the #1 important thing about having a successfull relationship is " COMMUNICATION " I kept telling my ex wife to communicate and she would always hold in things that were bad. At the very end she exploaded and she ended up filing divorce. She wants time alone. I think we are getting remarried again maybe in 6 months once she finds who she is again.

#2 important thing is friends. You gotta watch out on who you are hanging out with. Your partner may disagree with you hanging out with them and you'll end up having a crappy relationship.


are you saying that you should ditch your friends becuase she doesn't like them??


Yes and no.. But if you really love her, then you would do anything for her. There are more people out there where YOU and your love can get along with. I was hanging out with the wrong people and it messed up my relationship forcing me to get a divorce. I got what I deserved. But she is giving me a chance to remarry her soon...


well, i am glad to hear that it is working out for you...i wish you the best man

HOWEVER, unless your friends are getting you into situations that you shouldn't get into.....i think that your partner should accept your friends

whatssuup's photo
Fri 01/30/09 06:41 PM

The success of the relationship is determined by how well it meets the needs of the people involved

Roco's photo
Fri 01/30/09 07:39 PM


involves a combination of emotional & physical satisfaction...do you weigh these equally, or is one more important to you?


In order to be happy in a loving relationship, i must connect with them in 3 ways...Emotionally, physically AND Mentally.

No one places a higher importance, its a winning combination.


just curious..how many men have you have met that had those three qualities..

roco

Roco's photo
Fri 01/30/09 07:40 PM
as for me..1..or maybe 2..

roco

timiboi's photo
Fri 01/30/09 08:34 PM
nova86: Thanks bro, I need all the luck I can get right now.

the problem with the friends who I had was they were trying to break into our relationship and I did not know. My wife just briefly said that they were trying but you know,, I didn't think of it seriously. But again, she only said it to me briefly. There were no sitting down and talking about problems together. So she ended up keeping it to herself. I told her that she is more important than friends. There's plenty of people out there... But there is only ONE person out there who you will spend the rest of your life with....

I hope what I am explaining isn't confusing...

longhairbiker's photo
Fri 01/30/09 08:35 PM

involves a combination of emotional & physical satisfaction...do you weigh these equally, or is one more important to you?
...my scale is broken.

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Sat 01/31/09 05:07 AM



involves a combination of emotional & physical satisfaction...do you weigh these equally, or is one more important to you?


In order to be happy in a loving relationship, i must connect with them in 3 ways...Emotionally, physically AND Mentally.

No one places a higher importance, its a winning combination.


just curious..how many men have you have met that had those three qualities..

roco


They are not qualities, they are ways in which WE connect together, compatible, having similar outlooks regarding emotions, being attracted to each other and having similar morals in life.

I have experienced this more than once.


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Sat 01/31/09 05:22 AM

nova86: Thanks bro, I need all the luck I can get right now.

the problem with the friends who I had was they were trying to break into our relationship and I did not know. My wife just briefly said that they were trying but you know,, I didn't think of it seriously. But again, she only said it to me briefly. There were no sitting down and talking about problems together. So she ended up keeping it to herself. I told her that she is more important than friends. There's plenty of people out there... But there is only ONE person out there who you will spend the rest of your life with....

I hope what I am explaining isn't confusing...


it's not confusing at all man....i see what you are saying and i definitely don't see a problem with ditching your friends in that situation...i just thought in your original message you meant that if she didn't like your friends that you should drop them because of that (for no other reason)

well, i hope that you get that ONE person back then hotshot drinker

papersmile's photo
Sat 01/31/09 05:28 AM
But if you really love her, then you would do anything for her.


i don't agree with this at all; it's much too general of a statement.

there are some things that aren't ever worth losing yourself, regardless of how much you love the person.


In order to be happy in a loving relationship, i must connect with them in 3 ways...Emotionally, physically AND Mentally.

No one places a higher importance, its a winning combination.


same here. in fact, i wouldn't date someone with whom all those components weren't in place. and when one of them breaks down, the relationship tends to as well.

Seakolony's photo
Sat 01/31/09 05:39 AM
I do believe they are both equally important.

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