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Kealis Joined Sun 12/23/07 Posts: 46	Fri 01/30/09 03:27 PM
so has anybody ever felt like they are invisible even though they are in a full room of their best friends?

ljcc1964 Joined Fri 10/19/07 Posts: 8298	Fri 01/30/09 03:28 PM
My best friends wouldn't fill a room. No. Never had that feeling.

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Fri 01/30/09 03:28 PM


Redshirt Joined Tue 02/26/08 Posts: 2109	Fri 01/30/09 03:31 PM
so has anybody ever felt like they are invisible even though they are in a full room of their best friends? Try teaching. The room is full of students not friends.

Drifters13 Joined Tue 12/25/07 Posts: 1769	Fri 01/30/09 03:32 PM
so has anybody ever felt like they are invisible even though they are in a full room of their best friends? I have always said even in a room full of people I will always be alone. It has nothing to do with who your around physically, it has to do with what you have in common with them and if you share some of the same experiances and feelings.

Moondark Joined Tue 11/27/07 Posts: 5866	Fri 01/30/09 03:32 PM
so has anybody ever felt like they are invisible even though they are in a full room of their best friends? Yep.

EtherealEmbers Joined Sun 02/03/08 Posts: 6580	Fri 01/30/09 03:34 PM
More than I'd like to admit. You can easily remedy that though... if you feel invisible, do something REALLY stupid... someone's bound to notice you and not live it down for the rest of your life. Then you'll just wish you were invisible.

daddydg_2000 Joined Thu 01/10/08 Posts: 108	Fri 01/30/09 03:35 PM
That means that you are not in a room full of friends, just a room full of people.. You need to leave that room, call that one person who you know will be there and join him/her.

daddydg_2000 Joined Thu 01/10/08 Posts: 108	Fri 01/30/09 03:36 PM
That means that you are not in a room full of friends, just a room full of people.. You need to leave that room, call that one person who you know will be there and join him/her. Or, heck, grab a sixer and head to the lake for some fishin.. fish are your friends, and beer is your friend!!

MsCarmen Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 6282	Fri 01/30/09 03:37 PM
It's only happened to me one time. Years ago I went to the bar with all my friends and decided that I wasn't going to drink any more that night. It was like I was viewed as an outsider. I had fun, but it was a totally different experience for me. And I learned two things that night. One, I didn't need alcohol to have fun, and two, the people who I thought were okay to be around when they were drunk, really weren't all that fun. Have never drank since then and don't miss it.

Shagwell Joined Tue 12/30/08 Posts: 1323	Fri 01/30/09 03:44 PM
My best friends wouldn't fill a room. No. Never had that feeling. stop throwing rocks at your friends then maybe they will stick around

TheOnceGreat Joined Fri 11/28/08 Posts: 1569	Fri 01/30/09 03:46 PM
It's only happened to me one time. Years ago I went to the bar with all my friends and decided that I wasn't going to drink any more that night. It was like I was viewed as an outsider. I had fun, but it was a totally different experience for me. And I learned two things that night. One, I didn't need alcohol to have fun, and two, the people who I thought were okay to be around when they were drunk, really weren't all that fun. Have never drank since then and don't miss it. Being the designated driver is one of the best things a friend could be. All of my friends know that I will get them home and all of the local bartenders put on a fresh pot of coffee as soon as I walk in.

Shagwell Joined Tue 12/30/08 Posts: 1323	Fri 01/30/09 03:53 PM


MeChrissy2 Joined Sat 12/13/08 Posts: 10155	Fri 01/30/09 03:54 PM
Sure have. Just breath. Somedays that's all you have.