I have always been happy just dating, havent really had time for anything serious. I make it a point when I date someone to let them know its just dating and they are free to date others as well. I met a guy, he lives a little over an hour from me. We dont get to see each other a lot, about once a month. My schedule and his kinda clash and of course, the distance. We have been dating for quite a while now though not exclusively on either end. We have so much fun together though. I am really becoming attached to him and I want something more with him now, but the distance makes that difficult. Plus the fact that we both agreed on just dating, tho it was my idea originally. What should I do?

just see if it is what you both want and if it is, then make plans to get closer!

An hour is not really long-distance And, what should you do? Tell him what you just said here. What's the worst that can happen? He'll say he doesn't feel the same way. You're no worse off than you are now. And who knows, maybe he does but figured since you drew the parameters, that's what you want. If you can't talk, you're relationship is doomed anyway.

An hour is not "distance" at all. Hell, I used to do that every day just to go to my jobsites.

What she said.

1 HOUR away is long distance????

Anything over 20 mins. I pack an overnight bag