Topic: "Falling in Love To Fast"
rivame's photo
Tue 05/01/07 11:06 PM
Its not a case of falling in love too fast.

Maybe just falling in love with the wrong person.ohwell

bamabeecee's photo
Tue 05/01/07 11:15 PM
Tx, I have no regrets for the mistakes I've made, they made me who I am
today, and I kinda like me! Every bad time I've gone through has made me
stronger. Nothing has been able to hurt me bad enough to keep me down,
not even getting run over by a car! Took me a few months to get back on
my feet from that one, but not as long as some of the emotional hurts.
But even those heal. Just have a few scars to show for it, but I'm even
proud of those!

TxsGal3333's photo
Tue 05/01/07 11:25 PM
I do hear you for myself no regrets for my life or the way things have
been for each step that we learn from makes us stronger. Never dwell
upon the past just look forward towards the future. And take the things
we have learned and keep going forward.bigsmile

tantalizingtulip's photo
Wed 05/02/07 03:16 AM
txs how about you, what have been your ups and downs on this post.....?
meaning your life"


inquiring minds wanna know"bigsmile

no photo
Wed 05/02/07 03:19 AM
no such thing as love....it's all glorified chemistry!!!!
hahahhahahahahhahahahhaahahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

no photo
Wed 05/02/07 03:20 AM
ok ok okaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay most of the time:wink:

kidatheart70's photo
Wed 05/02/07 03:24 AM
What glorious chemistry it can be at times!!!!!:tongue:

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Wed 05/02/07 03:26 AM
wanna play with my beeker??? hey gorgeous man!!


you i have plenty of chemistry for!!! lol

kidatheart70's photo
Wed 05/02/07 03:28 AM
Awwwww...your gonna make the cork pop off my test tube!!:tongue:

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Wed 05/02/07 03:33 AM
here , wait .... maybe i better grab that for you!:wink:

kidatheart70's photo
Wed 05/02/07 03:41 AM
blushing Ummmmmmm.......flowerforyou

no photo
Wed 05/02/07 03:46 AM
yea sometimes spectacular chemistry leaves me speechless as
well............:heart:

kidatheart70's photo
Wed 05/02/07 03:49 AM
Sometimes words aren't neccessary.

Native_Grl39's photo
Wed 05/02/07 04:09 AM
Those that jump from relationship to relationship and want to call it
love each time are only seeking outside of themselves that which needs
to come from the inside of THEM!!!!!!!!!

Another person can't make you happy or define who you are....Only YOU
can do that!!!!!!!!!!!!


flowerforyou

SheNerd's photo
Wed 05/02/07 04:37 AM
"Those that jump from relationship to relationship and want to call it
love each time are only seeking outside of themselves that which needs
to come from the inside of THEM!!!!!!!!!

Another person can't make you happy or define who you are....Only YOU
can do that!!!!!!!!!!!!"

Amen to that!!!

SheNerd :)

bamabeecee's photo
Wed 05/02/07 04:42 AM
Another person can't make you happy, they can make you happier, or make
you feel it more, but you have to have the happiness inside to work
with. And you can't make someone else be happy, I spent too many years
trying to do that.

auburngirl's photo
Wed 05/02/07 09:52 AM
"Love is certain love is kind, love is yours and love is mine but it
isn't something that we find, it's something that we do. It's holding
tight and letting go it's flyin high and layin low; let your strongest
feelings show, and your weakness too. It's a little and a lot to ask an
endless and a welcomed task, love isn't something that we have...it's
something that we do. We're on a road that has no end and each day we
begin again; love's not something that we're in...it's something that we
do.

"something that we do" Clint Black

starryhopes's photo
Wed 05/02/07 04:49 PM
I Love that Auburn..that sums it up for me. In my life, I have never
regreted loving anyone whether it happened slow or fast. I believe
giving and receiving on all levels is what that is about...lust is not
love and infatuation is not love either. As we mature we learn more
about love and avoid the pitfalls...but the risk of meeting people and
developing love for someone is the greatest experience in life...hands
down. I can't moralize to anyone about speed or risk...just hope that
your journey brings you love; laughter and lessons.

bamabeecee's photo
Wed 05/02/07 05:35 PM
Well, I've already posted 2 or 3 times on this topic, but it's a good
one, and I don't think I really answered the op question.

I don't think there is a set answer to this question. Love has it's own
timetable. It can take 5o years or 5 minutes. I don't think it's a
problem of too fast so much as too often. People who "fall in love" with
someone new every time the wind blows have no idea what love really is.
That is lust or infatuation, or just being afraid of being alone. But it
has nothing to do with love.

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Wed 05/02/07 06:27 PM
Live Rivame said

Maybe it just falling in love

with the wrong person

I know the feeling of being

"Doomed from the start" ... not cool