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Topic: Are WE attracted to the wrong folks............
Angelsing Joined Sat 07/21/07 Posts: 1111	Sun 03/08/09 08:34 PM
I say WE as in everybody on Mingle2 who is still searching. And if we are attracted to the wrong folks, how to we go about changing what we like in order to have what we need, or do we???

trsmith22 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 5959	Sun 03/08/09 08:36 PM
GREAT question

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sun 03/08/09 08:38 PM
I say WE as in everybody on Mingle2 who is still searching. And if we are attracted to the wrong folks, how to we go about changing what we like in order to have what we need, or do we??? Meet and get to know a wide variety of people

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Sun 03/08/09 08:39 PM
I say WE as in everybody on Mingle2 who is still searching. And if we are attracted to the wrong folks, how to we go about changing what we like in order to have what we need, or do we??? You can't change what you like, it's called genetics.

trsmith22 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 5959	Sun 03/08/09 08:39 PM
I say WE as in everybody on Mingle2 who is still searching. And if we are attracted to the wrong folks, how to we go about changing what we like in order to have what we need, or do we??? Meet and get to know a wide variety of people That is too logical

galendgirl Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 24728	Sun 03/08/09 08:42 PM
I say WE as in everybody on Mingle2 who is still searching. And if we are attracted to the wrong folks, how to we go about changing what we like in order to have what we need, or do we??? You can't change what you like, it's called genetics. Yeah, but I think we can learn more about ourselves and choose more wisely anyway...doesn't mean we won't be attracted, just that we (hopefully) learned painful lessons and are moving forward???

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Sun 03/08/09 08:42 PM Edited by Peccy on Sun 03/08/09 08:43 PM
I say WE as in everybody on Mingle2 who is still searching. And if we are attracted to the wrong folks, how to we go about changing what we like in order to have what we need, or do we??? Meet and get to know a wide variety of people you are still only "attracted" to certain kinds, hopefully it's a healthful relationship.

wannacuddlewthme Joined Tue 11/11/08 Posts: 7110	Sun 03/08/09 08:43 PM
I want it now....Wait...Yea well thats on me

Angelsing Joined Sat 07/21/07 Posts: 1111	Sun 03/08/09 08:45 PM
I say WE as in everybody on Mingle2 who is still searching. And if we are attracted to the wrong folks, how to we go about changing what we like in order to have what we need, or do we??? You can't change what you like, it's called genetics. You can't change it, but you can pretend.

lovethelord Joined Sun 01/11/09 Posts: 1399	Sun 03/08/09 08:45 PM
I say WE as in everybody on Mingle2 who is still searching. And if we are attracted to the wrong folks, how to we go about changing what we like in order to have what we need, or do we??? Its like this...... Some people walk and walk then they fall in a hole. The next time they walk and walk and see the same whole and still fall in. The next time they walk and walk and still see the whole brighter than ever and they still fall in. The hole keeps getting deeper due to all the stupid falls. The solution would be walk and walk and see the fricken hole and WALK AROUND it... but some never do. Thank God for common sence... but Love is blind so some keep falling in the stinken hole... good luck!

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Sun 03/08/09 08:46 PM
I say WE as in everybody on Mingle2 who is still searching. And if we are attracted to the wrong folks, how to we go about changing what we like in order to have what we need, or do we??? You can't change what you like, it's called genetics. Yeah, but I think we can learn more about ourselves and choose more wisely anyway...doesn't mean we won't be attracted, just that we (hopefully) learned painful lessons and are moving forward??? True, but you'll be attracted to that type of person regardless.

galendgirl Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 24728	Sun 03/08/09 08:47 PM
I say WE as in everybody on Mingle2 who is still searching. And if we are attracted to the wrong folks, how to we go about changing what we like in order to have what we need, or do we??? You can't change what you like, it's called genetics. Yeah, but I think we can learn more about ourselves and choose more wisely anyway...doesn't mean we won't be attracted, just that we (hopefully) learned painful lessons and are moving forward??? True, but you'll be attracted to that type of person regardless. I just poke myself in the eye with a hot stick and it seems to help with behavior modification efforts!

Angelsing Joined Sat 07/21/07 Posts: 1111	Sun 03/08/09 08:47 PM
Yeah, but I think we can learn more about ourselves and choose more wisely anyway...doesn't mean we won't be attracted, just that we (hopefully) learned painful lessons and are moving forward??? Whew!, you said a mouthfull there.

galendgirl Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 24728	Sun 03/08/09 08:50 PM
Yeah, but I think we can learn more about ourselves and choose more wisely anyway...doesn't mean we won't be attracted, just that we (hopefully) learned painful lessons and are moving forward??? Whew!, you said a mouthfull there. ...and if that doesn't work...try the hot stick in the eye! Seriously! That will curb the attraction! LOL!

Angelsing Joined Sat 07/21/07 Posts: 1111	Sun 03/08/09 08:51 PM
I say WE as in everybody on Mingle2 who is still searching. And if we are attracted to the wrong folks, how to we go about changing what we like in order to have what we need, or do we??? Its like this...... Some people walk and walk then they fall in a hole. The next time they walk and walk and see the same whole and still fall in. The next time they walk and walk and still see the whole brighter than ever and they still fall in. The hole keeps getting deeper due to all the stupid falls. The solution would be walk and walk and see the fricken hole and WALK AROUND it... but some never do. Thank God for common sence... but Love is blind so some keep falling in the stinken hole... good luck! I know some people who stay in terrible relationships for so called (love). I'd rather be alone and lonely than to stay in a miserable relationship.

AndyBgood Joined Thu 12/25/08 Posts: 12437	Sun 03/08/09 08:52 PM
Yeah, I'm a glutton for punishment! Then again I live in Los Angeles and well, this is the wrong place to find love unless you got money pouring out of your assh!

Angelsing Joined Sat 07/21/07 Posts: 1111	Sun 03/08/09 08:54 PM
Yeah, but I think we can learn more about ourselves and choose more wisely anyway...doesn't mean we won't be attracted, just that we (hopefully) learned painful lessons and are moving forward??? Whew!, you said a mouthfull there. ...and if that doesn't work...try the hot stick in the eye! Seriously! That will curb the attraction! LOL! lol, girl no matter what, we always seem to fall for the same type of people. When will we ever learn.............

trsmith22 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 5959	Sun 03/08/09 08:55 PM
We never will....i am living proof

galendgirl Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 24728	Sun 03/08/09 08:57 PM
We never will....i am living proof Well, maybe we just get smart enough to have fun and not get our hearts broken??? God knows I'd like to think I learn SOMETHING from lessons gone by!

Angelsing Joined Sat 07/21/07 Posts: 1111	Sun 03/08/09 08:57 PM
We never will....i am living proof Well, I'm sure your heart is in the right place anyway. God help us all, lololol.