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ganesh4u Joined Tue 03/10/09 Posts: 35	Sat 03/14/09 11:16 AM Edited by ganesh4u on Sat 03/14/09 11:16 AM
what should be your attitude in a relationship so that u dont feel hurt when you are dumped????????

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Sat 03/14/09 11:16 AM


msmyka Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 17079	Sat 03/14/09 11:17 AM
If you don't feel hurt when dumped then you probably weren't really in a relationship to begin with. If you keep your walls up too high for anyone to get in and hurt you then there is no way to let someone in enough to love you.

Theshortelktonman Joined Fri 02/27/09 Posts: 147	Sat 03/14/09 11:19 AM
what should be your attitude in a relationship so that u dont feel hurt when you are dumped???????? realistic

Brandi_Girl Joined Mon 03/09/09 Posts: 90	Sat 03/14/09 11:20 AM
i'd run over him with my car

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Sat 03/14/09 11:21 AM
NEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEXT!!!

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 03/14/09 11:23 AM
what should be your attitude in a relationship so that u dont feel hurt when you are dumped???????? Pretend to be more into the relationship than you really are

MelodyGirl Joined Sun 01/25/09 Posts: 9452	Sat 03/14/09 11:34 AM
If you are calculating an 'attitude' to avoid getting hurt than you are not investing yourself in that relationship. It's unfair to the person you are with to bring that into a relationship. A person who is this afraid of getting hurt probably should not look for relationships and just date without commitment.

catwoman96 Joined Thu 08/14/08 Posts: 5848	Sat 03/14/09 11:36 AM
i'd run over him with my car twice.............teach the bastard to never leave me

sam7704 Joined Wed 03/04/09 Posts: 51	Sun 03/15/09 07:57 AM
what should be your attitude in a relationship so that u dont feel hurt when you are dumped???????? don't feel dumped

LadyHawkeByDay Joined Sat 12/01/07 Posts: 54	Sun 03/15/09 08:00 AM
I like ridingdubz philosophy on this point. Pain is a necessary catalyst of personal growth. You have a choice. Avoid pain and atrophy altogether. Or you can confront it-- advance through it-- learn to negotiate it, and maybe find a reward at the end of the trial.

prisoner Joined Tue 01/06/09 Posts: 5129	Sun 03/15/09 08:01 AM
if you have confidence in yourself as an INDIVIDUAL no one can ever hurt you in an emotional sense be seeing you

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Sun 03/15/09 08:03 AM
NEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEXT!!!

evilbabe277 Joined Thu 02/19/09 Posts: 2751	Sun 03/15/09 09:13 AM
Be thankful that no more time was wasted to jump back on that path to discover the right person

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Mon 03/16/09 06:44 AM
An attitude? How about the position that you do the best you can every day. That you listen, and love, and act out of empathy and respect. That you show your feelings through actions and always do everything you can do to make your partner happy without losing yourself. If it ends, you cherish the times you did have and learn what you can from why it ended. Then look look forward to the next opportunity. Be happy with what you have, and then be happy with what you had... if need be.

quiet_2008 Joined Sat 08/30/08 Posts: 11138	Mon 03/16/09 06:48 AM Edited by quiet_2008 on Mon 03/16/09 06:49 AM
what should be your attitude in a relationship so that u dont feel hurt when you are dumped???????? I would never enter into a relationship where I had the expectation of being dumped. If you are in a relationship and you try to have an attitude in preparation for getting dumped then you already have doomed the relationship

MsCarmen Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 6282	Mon 03/16/09 07:02 AM
Call me crazy, but I just can't see someone wanting to get in to a relationship with a man or woman who had the attitude that they were going to be dumped at some point. How depressing! If I ever got stuck in something like that I'd give you what you expected from the beginning and tell you to hit the road.