Im a single father of 3, with not alot of time to spare. Ive been single for quite some time, but want to get back dating again. Only problem besides the lack of time, is my extreme lack in confidence. Any advice, or if any1 would like to know more about me please let me know. Thanks.

Well as a single father of 3 I imagine that you have a lot of things you accomplish everyday. It might seem to you that getting those kids through the day isn't much but it is. Plenty of people throw away the responsiblity but from the way you wrote I'd say you didn't and that right there makes you someone who is great. So start with that and start looking at all you do all you have survived and build up that confidence because at the end of the day I'd bet there are at least 3 people who think of you as a hero.

First of all- Welcome!!!

confidence comes with experience- so why not just go out with friends and be casual about everything. You don't have alot of free time - what with 3 kids that is understandable. Talk to lots of people- join in on the forums and let people get to know you and just go with the flow.

I know its scary to put yourself out there but the more first dates you go on the easier it will be and you will regain your confidence. you know all of this- just relax. it'll all happen when its supposed to. Good luck to you