This girl I know ask me sometime( well, two times )to go out wth her and her boyfriend along with another guy I am not attractive to. One time I went and I was not feeling this guy at all. So, not too long ago, she ask me do I want to go out and this guy was going to go and I am not feeling him either. I told her I will be looking at other men, because noone is not going to stand in my way of meeting someone else. I decide the next time she ask, I will say no, because I don't want to feel like I am disrespecting anyone or make the guy feel bad. Like I said in another post that a lot of guys( well, bums )try to talk to me. I do have my standard. I like a man that take care of his hygiene, dress nice, keep his hair cut or looking nice, have a job( or have an good reason for not having one ), know what you want in life, the list goes on. And another thing, I don't want a drug dealer or want a be, I don't want someone that do drugs period, I don't want an alcoholic( if you drink occasionally, that is fine ). For one I believe the girl calls to be funny, because she heard what I said about her. My thing is if you have a problem with someone, say something about it. Don't go around playing little children games, because we are adults. I feel like what she heard have gotten to her, because she will not be calling me playing games. How I know what she heard, because she repeat it, but in a joking way. I feel like you are still an coward when you do something like that. The way you get something off your chest is by confronting the person about it or leave them along all together. I'm just thinking about getting my phone number change. Do you all think that I am being too picky and what do you think is too picky?

I think you're thinking about it too much.. Changing your number seems quite extreme... Next time she calls why don't you be honest and tell her how you feel about her calling and that you know she heard you don't want to and you believe she's playing games... What's good for the goose ya know...

You are right I am thinking about it too much and getting my phone number change is too much. I will say something, but I want to make sure I am right about she heard what I have said about her. She knows I am not interested in these guys. What I am talking about early is she told me one guy ask about me and I was interested in him and I thought she was cool and told her somethings ( You know how some female are ) and the guy is good friends with her boyfriend and she went back and told the her boyfriend what I have said and he went back and told the guy. To make along story short the guy was mad. This girl and I go way back, because we use to hang out along time ago. I just believe she is jealous. Little do she know I have caught her boyfriend looking at me.