Part of this is a thank you to all who responded and sent me advice last time. I last wrote on this woman in this post:

http://mingle2.com/topic/show/206775

It's like the saga never ends, lol.

In short, I met this woman online and she was burned online before (i.e. people she met online would lie to her - she was about to give up on online dating). I basically had to work to gain her trust, and just when things were developing, she went on a trip abroad.

When she came back, we didn't talk for about a week. I thought that she had moved on and wasn't interested. But then she sent me an email apologizing for her absence, and telling me that she would be back in a bit. We later resumed our online convos. I followed the advice of some people on this forum and eventually gave her my number (and got hers in return). We've been talking since then, every day for the most part, for hours. I presume she is interested (whether she's "just interested" or "really interested" I'm not sure - I guess I'll find out when I see her).

I'm again trying to walk a fine line between showing her that I'm interested and not underplaying/overplaying any interest she may have. I'm still wondering whether she thinks of me as someone she could just open up to (i.e. close friend), or or something more. Any thoughts, pointers, etc.? I know that we guys are notoriously slow in terms of picking up women's interest. Any input will be appreciated. Thanks for reading this too.

Move or don't move

lol, what?

R u going to make your move or not

oh no, I am, otherwise I would bother with this. We're going to meet in the summer, all depending on her schedule (since it's crazier than mine).

Unless there isn't someone to make a move for.

tip... steal jungains header roflmao thats a good one!!!

That is true. I'll do it. lol

best of luck, nothing smells better than confidence.

tell her how you feel, if it goes well, that's great, if not, it's better to know now than waste time going in that direction

If it dont feel right to you then dont make a move.

I was planning to do that when I see her. Problem is that we're separated by almost 200 miles (kind of cuts the amount of time we could see each other). Since both of our schedules until summer will be crowded. I figured that it wouldn't be that long from from now.