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Topic: Is It Possible To
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Wed 03/25/09 03:14 PM
it is possible.

We 'fall in love' with our perception of the person... the aspects of them that we see.

People grow, their ideals, their beliefs, their behaviours all grow with them, sometimes in synch with yours, and sometimes not...people are fluid, ever-growing creatures, we don't stay the same as when we met...we are not sculptures of ourselves...

And at times, when we part through the 'differences', down the road a bit we can 'fall in love' again with the new similarities.

Of course it is possible...when one's heart, and mind is open to the newness of each other.

:heart:


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Wed 03/25/09 04:42 PM

Fall in love with someone who you were in love before?

I remember asking my ex-wife to stay and work things out

She said to me "You have to make me fall in love with you again"

I was like ... " Ok , have a nice life" then she left

Somehow i think if we fall in love with someone

Then we fall out of love , it's impossible to do it again

With the same person , what are you opinions


I don't post many threads but i was thinking about this :)


Frank Sinatra sings a song called, "The Second Time Around" that suggests it's not only possible, but better the second time. I'm not positive, but I believe that between the right persons, this is absolutely the case.

How can you tell if you and they are the right persons? I think you'd have to post another thread and ask some other folks, because THAT I have no idea about. Best of luck, man.

DTHRomeo's photo
Wed 03/25/09 04:45 PM

I thank everyone for posting drinker flowerforyou

We're still friends , we talk about our kids and

We have said to each other that we have love for each other

And will always be there , I doubt we'll ever be together again

Since we both did a lot of damage to our relationship

She's happy in a relationship and i'm ok being single

So i guess things are good , I was just remembering things we said to

each other one time and i started this thread

Thanks again guys! :smile:

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Wed 03/25/09 04:51 PM
I believe you can fall in love again
depending upon what happened to make
you fall out of love. Unless it is
something devastating then it is possible.
Most "falling out of love" is due to
boredom and no sense of adventure anymore.
It is just igniting a fire from the spark again

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