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Topic: There's this girl...
Chris146's photo
Wed 03/25/09 07:45 PM



slip her a note after homeroom


whats home room?




The few minutes in High School before classes begin. Remember where they took attendance?

Anyway, I believe the point is, you're now supposed to be a grown up (hopefully). Man up! Talk to her. It is not rocket surgery.

yeah you guys are right thanks for the advice... wait what should i say? should i tell her all about these thoughts or what. damn another question!!!

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Wed 03/25/09 07:47 PM




slip her a note after homeroom


whats home room?




The few minutes in High School before classes begin. Remember where they took attendance?

Anyway, I believe the point is, you're now supposed to be a grown up (hopefully). Man up! Talk to her. It is not rocket surgery.

yeah you guys are right thanks for the advice... wait what should i say? should i tell her all about these thoughts or what. damn another question!!!



Yes, share your thoughts. It's called communication. Just don't drool or ask her to go steady.

fender8621's photo
Wed 03/25/09 07:59 PM
I understand your situation, was in a similar one a while back and I made the mistake of telling her I wasn't ready. Now I still think about her and she's in Japan studying abroad, I say if you have feelings for her go for it. She's known you for a while and what troubles you had, if she still wants to be with you afterwards thats an even better reason than if you had no trouble at all.

galendgirl's photo
Wed 03/25/09 08:33 PM

pitchfork If she turns you down just tell her you dont care you think she wuz fat anywayspitchfork


Ouch! Mirror! That's so beneath you to be mean! HAD to be the devil on your shoulders! ohwell

Chris146's photo
Wed 03/25/09 10:37 PM

I understand your situation, was in a similar one a while back and I made the mistake of telling her I wasn't ready. Now I still think about her and she's in Japan studying abroad, I say if you have feelings for her go for it. She's known you for a while and what troubles you had, if she still wants to be with you afterwards thats an even better reason than if you had no trouble at all.


thats a little closer truth is we have known each other for a long time but i left a while back four year to count the time and she has no idea what happened to me and im not to sure that i should tell her. i actually left because i had a fight with my father and spent four years in jail now im out and... its just a lot to expect someone to even think about me after a situation like that so im think about not saying anything and just letting her move on with her life it will probably be better that way

Jess642's photo
Wed 03/25/09 10:45 PM
Ummm...you're 19...four years in jail ?huh ... liked this girl before.......... what, when you were 12???... etc, etc...

This sounds a lot like a mini psycho-drama, Chris.

You like her... you tell her.

You don't want a relationship, ie dating, (assuming that's what she wants)...tell her.

It's not bloody rocket science.

Chris146's photo
Wed 03/25/09 10:57 PM

Ummm...you're 19...four years in jail ?huh ... liked this girl before.......... what, when you were 12???... etc, etc...

This sounds a lot like a mini psycho-drama, Chris.

You like her... you tell her.

You don't want a relationship, ie dating, (assuming that's what she wants)...tell her.

It's not bloody rocket science.


I know im young and yes i met her when i was twelve and we had been friends until i was fifteen. then i went away. hadnt seen her hadnt talked to her, im surprised she remembers me. it just seems harder to actually do it than it is talking about it.

greeneyedgirrl's photo
Thu 03/26/09 01:49 AM
Tell her upfront. Honestly it's really not take it or leave it. I was in a situation once where it was expressed this person was not ready but it worked cause ya know what? Neither was I. Maybe she's not ready either. I say go slow and let it progress the way it will. You add pressure and the whole thing gets messed up.

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