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She got sidetracked with another dude. Most guys start off with some sort of small talk..sometimes I have 10 IM windows up at the same time, and I usually stick w/ the conversations I find most interesting. (And no, "Hows it going" and "Hows your day?" ain't gonna cut it!) Change it up a little. Next time say something clever, not cheesy tho, something other than the usual, something totally random. Keep it interesting!! It gets old having to reply: "Good n u?" to your:" Hows it going?" Especially when she has 10 windows open (and if she is remotely hot, she prolly has at least that) I like to have big discussions usually, and it is hard carrying on a good convo with 10 guys at the same time..the ones that are just too usual, will get left behind/ignored... whatever. Don't take it personal, just learn from it, to just be a lil' different than everyone else she is currently talking to.  Well I guess I have to stay away from hot women less competition = more chance. 
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Wow, um, hate to say this, but you are a bit too analytical, hon. Women hate that. I hate being and having everything I do analyzed. I am human, I make mistakes, but I hate having people analyze them. Just accept the fact that some people just stop emailing. Period. I do it, and I am sure others have too. I hate one liner emails asking me how I am doing. Talk to me. When I get one liners, I give one-liners. When asked how I am doing, I tell you "Fine" and that's it. Don't stress about and don't bother yourself so much to post about it. After all, this is Mingle. MANY people have asked the same question you have and NO ONE has found the answer yet. BTW, I have noticed a few of my emails I have sent on this site have gone unread because they never make it to the designated person. They get lost in MingleSpace and never get read. Trust me, cause I have asked and had people say they never got that email or whatever. So, analyze that. Maybe she never got it? |
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Edited by
Atlantis75
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Thu 03/26/09 10:12 PM
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Wow, um, hate to say this, but you are a bit too analytical, hon. Women hate that. lol..no wonder I'm single.  Maybe I should stay single?  I hate being and having everything I do analyzed. I am human, I make mistakes, but I hate having people analyze them. Don't stress about and don't bother yourself so much to post about it. If you wanna know the reality, i'm only doing it to get more exposure.    After all, this is Mingle. MANY people have asked the same question you have and NO ONE has found the answer yet. BTW, I have noticed a few of my emails I have sent on this site have gone unread because they never make it to the designated person. They get lost in MingleSpace and never get read. Trust me, cause I have asked and had people say they never got that email or whatever. So, analyze that. Maybe she never got it? Kinda like the bermuda triangle..  oh..and for you . 
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You have now entered the Mingle Twilight Zone
 I'll throw out another thought, you're too cute and that may make some of the females you're exchanging nudges and emails with feel less than worthy. That and they tend to overanalyze everything you said and read way into things, so your very polite replies might be taken for, okay he's just responding because he's polite not because he's interested. The female mind is a very tricky and scary thing....better not to ask most of the time
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he is also a real kind-hearted soul.
Makes for a great friend for me, sucks I am too busy and too taken for anything more... |
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I think some people are afraid to tell you their not interested, so they hope you'll just get the hint so you don't have to say it.
But I agree - in actuality it ends cleaner & sooner if they're just honest, so you don't have to wonder. |
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Edited by
Atlantis75
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Fri 03/27/09 06:32 PM
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he is also a real kind-hearted soul. Makes for a great friend for me, sucks I am too busy and too taken for anything more... Thanks..  but just between us.. I really wish I could show what I could be, instead of what I am now, because that's not all what I really am.  I hope you understand.
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It's a great site but remember it's free. Usually the $ sites weed out the frivolous lookers. Also, you never know if someone's buzz wore off or they were just looking to see who would be interested in them or their husband walked in the room! You are nice looking and I would say to keep on with what you are doing. If it's meant to be it will be.
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It's a great site but remember it's free. Usually the $ sites weed out the frivolous lookers. Also, you never know if someone's buzz wore off or they were just looking to see who would be interested in them or their husband walked in the room! You are nice looking and I would say to keep on with what you are doing. If it's meant to be it will be. You get more real people right here and not for $99.95 a month...I have seen more sleezebags on paid sites than on here... in the forums.. I like your prof name Ms catsndogs. 
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I'm gonna rant off here a bit. This is not aimed at anyone particular it's not about any of you who knows me somewhat already but others 'one hit wonders" - what I mean with that I'm gonna explain right now. So I log on...and I find a nudge..so I nudge back, everything is fine. Then I get an email usually saying - Hey, how are you? So I reply I'm great thank you...and you? Nothing more. Sometimes I add something like "I'm great, thanks for looking me up, how is your evening? "...or similar. Then a big frickin' silence. So ok...I think she might logged off or something, got busy etc..so I wait...1 day later I write her again.. "Hi!"....no reply. Then I see her being logged on a few times already ever since..so it's not that she hasn't come back yet. Some of the friends here can attest that I'm nice and never say anything completely stupid..I try to be funny and nice, so no excuses that I might be a 'perv' or someone who should be avoided at all costs. My question is....Why do you email guys if you don't plan to respond? Imagine the reverse scenario.. - You're standing in a bar with other friends..and I walk up to you and say "Hi! How are you?" Then you say "I'm fine thanks, and you?" And instead of responding to you , I turn around and walk away. You would probably look at your friends and say "What an idiot". Am I right? Now, imagine this done to you not once but 3-4 times. How would that make you feel? Not returning nudges is one thing, and I can understand when someone doesn't respond, because they logged off suddenly or their computer went bad etc....but look When you email someone, that person thinks that you are interested. Interested for talking or getting to know each other, somehow you want a conversation or at least an email back or friendship whatever. So any of you ladies...explain to me what's going on? Did you ever see "Finding Nemo"? Do you remember a fish called Dory? That's funny neither do I! Have we had this conversation before? 
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