Topic: ladies, a little advice on my new relationship
thunderstruck60's photo
Fri 03/27/09 09:32 PM
i met this girl a little over a year ago, went and visited her, but never went anywhere from there. she then hooked up with a guy and dated him up until just recent. after they broke up, she came up and went snowboarding with me and some friends. we hit it off again and she seems interested in me but still misses her ex. how do i not screw up and run her off? i'm confused on what steps to take now so advice would be great! thanks.

MsCarmen's photo
Fri 03/27/09 09:34 PM
I wouldn't bother with her. If she still misses her ex, then she's not over him yet and probably won't be willing to give you a sincere chance any time soon.

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 03/27/09 09:35 PM
:smile: She needs to forget the ex:smile:

evilbabe277's photo
Fri 03/27/09 09:37 PM
Play hard to get till she gets over the ex

flowerforyou

Dragoness's photo
Fri 03/27/09 09:44 PM

i met this girl a little over a year ago, went and visited her, but never went anywhere from there. she then hooked up with a guy and dated him up until just recent. after they broke up, she came up and went snowboarding with me and some friends. we hit it off again and she seems interested in me but still misses her ex. how do i not screw up and run her off? i'm confused on what steps to take now so advice would be great! thanks.


Personally I would consider her rebounding and be careful with becoming involved until I see she is over the other guy. Hope that helps.

no photo
Fri 03/27/09 09:51 PM

write her name in the snow when you pee and then show it to her...women are impressed by this ...bigsmile

misstina2's photo
Fri 03/27/09 09:52 PM
flowerforyou be a friend until you are certain she's not going back with the xflowerforyou

7z3r05's photo
Fri 03/27/09 09:55 PM

flowerforyou be a friend until you are certain she's not going back with the xflowerforyou


please have sex with me

thunderstruck60's photo
Fri 03/27/09 09:57 PM
she told me her ex pretends to be the guy she wants but when she isn't around he is completely different. she also said he lies to her and tries to control her. she said he won't let her hang out with any of her guy friends and has real low self-esteem. i just told her that i don't lie because it only leads to problems and i just want her to be her, to be happy and to spend time with her friends. she is unbelievable and an amazing woman and i don't want to lose her again.

sarahsweetie's photo
Fri 03/27/09 10:11 PM
honestly. you never had her. sorry. she views you as a friend and thats why when you visited her there was nothing. i hate to be brutal but it sounds like you want the truth. I would forget her and if she comes back with something more than sorry just not over my last bf.. then try again. otherwise.. find someone better.. and trust there's ALWAYS better


good luck

no photo
Fri 03/27/09 10:54 PM
She is hurt and scared over her recent break-up ... been there. She is just going back where it is safe.
Regardless it's not that you are "running her off". Apparently she doen't really feel for you the way you want her to. But there is always a chance. So if you feel there is a chance, you will regret not taking it.

Shidoshi's photo
Fri 03/27/09 11:12 PM
Forget her move on so many chicks out there better than wot you tink you got or ur seeing now

no photo
Fri 03/27/09 11:43 PM

i met this girl a little over a year ago, went and visited her, but never went anywhere from there. she then hooked up with a guy and dated him up until just recent. after they broke up, she came up and went snowboarding with me and some friends. we hit it off again and she seems interested in me but still misses her ex. how do i not screw up and run her off? i'm confused on what steps to take now so advice would be great! thanks.


You can't screw up. She already did. She left you for someone else and then came back? Wow..that is wrong.
You are a good man flowerforyou
But don't go back