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Maybe I am wrong here.. maybe they feel if they get there pass out in the open and all right up front etc, they can move onto a relationship with the woman there trying to get to know but what they don't understand is while trying to talk about there pass there only hurting them self's, when trying to start a new one up.. then they wonder why there still stuck being single.
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Every guy that I date it seems like within the first hour we are together they are telling me all of their deep dark secrets. What happened to them as a child, how it hurt when they broke up or divorced their exes, etc. Am I putting off some kind of vibe that they are picking up on? Do I look like a therapist? I have been told that I come across as very nurturing and compassionate. But crap. I am very guarded about my life and it really confuses me that these men would be telling this stuff to a date. No, this does not get them sex. I am not being a *****, but please, lets get to know each other a little bit better before you start revealing your skeletons. What gives? 
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I can understand talking about past relationships to some degree. But how about a man telling you on the first encounter "I was raped when i was 12". To much information to quickly. I get this **** all the time. I am a very caring person, compassionate, understanding. This kind of information is shared with me by most of the men that I date. Do they do this with other women? Am i putting off a vibe or aura that these men feel compelled to tell me these things? Is it them or is it me?
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I must have dated all their ex's
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Sometimes people talk too much.
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As Madea would say "Hallaluyerr". LOL.
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I have 'therapist' tattooed on my forehead....   However, it is like speed dating, I know within an hour who I REALLY need to get an AVO put on, who I could possibly see again, and who I need to charge $450 an hour for therapy...  Funny, I have "wierdos welcome" in neon on my forehead. As for people opening up about their lives - I get it at work too, from customers. let me spend 15 mins with them and I know who died, how, when etc. No one else seems to get these customers, they seem to seek me out. As for whining, men or women, I think it makes for a boring first or early date. Have fun getting to know each other as who you are now. If the relationship progresses there will be tme for bringing up the past. |
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