When it comes to that first kiss...

Do you prefer the "shy" or playful approach

Or do you want him to grab you and take it?

Or something else...

Curious.

I like the shy playful approach

its more romantic then just going at it

shy at first then with more confidence

I prefer a confident kiss that is tender, lots of eye contact, with intensity.

If we are not compatible kissers then the approach won't mean a thing anyway. The kiss will suck and date over.

certainly the more playfull, you start teasing each other or play fighting and when you least expect it your face to face and it just happens in the perfect way for her, all you have to do is follow her lead

This is so me....



Carry on...

I like the build up kiss...where you find yourself close enough, but then back off with GREAT eye contact, then close again. He finds a reason to touch my face, I feel his eyes lingering on my lips. Then when the time is right, tips up my chin and the last thing I see are his eyes closing. Firm lips, gentle pressure, and allows the kiss to flow. Not some guy who feels the need to check out my tonsils and slobber all over my face...ICK.

My favorite 'first' kiss was a quiet, little after thought. After talking for 3 hours in the company of friends, walking me safely to my car and saying 'good night', he started to walk away. Before I could start the car, he was back at my window, gave me a light, sweet kiss and asked if he could see me again. Very nice...it gave me the sense that I would remain on his mind after I left. I did...he remained on my mind, too.

For the first kiss, I do like the shy and playful approach. :)

My most favorite first kiss was with a man I worked with. We were on two different shifts at the time, but I had come in on the weekend because they were short staffed. On that Sunday night at midnight, he called over to the dorm I was working in and asked me to meet him for a beer at a little "hole in the wall" place down the road. After arriving and sitting down, he walked over to me, placed one hand between my legs on the chair and the other behind my back on the chair and flipped me backwards, still in a sitting position. He looked me dead in the eye and said, "I have wanted to sweep you off of your feet since the moment I laid eyes on you" and planted a 20 minute, earth shaking, mind blowing kiss on me.

That was 13 years ago.

I must stay it has stuck with me.

It depends on the moment!

The sweet gentle cheek kisses leading to much more passionate kisses

~the best first kiss is totally unexpected... Not all awkward before it happens~ definately playful and out of nowhere.

It depends on how the date went and on the guy. Some men just can't do 'grab you and take it' without coming across like a creep.

agree!!

I mean I may not even want to be kissed. Let the woman initiate it, or at least insinuated it. Don't just go in for "The Kill", cuz thats just creepy, especially on a first kiss.

What if a guy is really terrible at reading the " insinuations "???

In that ^^^ case, he shouldn't attempt to kiss her, until the 2nd or 3rd date.

If she's agreed to future dates, it means that she is interested.

a little shy and playful ...

I adore playful but not shy. I think a first kiss should be confident but not demanding and it should follow lots of great eye contact that says I just could eat you up. Something lightly sexual but not blatant and take me now attitude, a gentle tease if you will.

Or do you want him to grab you and take it?
Confident approach